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Our Community / Re: Quotes from your MLCer and Age Regression
« Last post by Mortesbride on Today at 11:17:20 AM »
me ''I love you'', him ''Don't spew that poison at me''


him ''Go on and cry your crocodile tears''

'' I can't help my brain is broken''

When I hugged him( my husband of 14 years)  ''Dont do that I feel like I am cheating (on OW)'' ohh the irony

''You are looking skinny, I will need to get the cake in''

''Feel my abs (grabs hand and sticks it to his stomach)...but Im not coming home'' :o

''I dont want to lead you on''

guy yelling at his family in resturaunt ''Least Im not as bad as that guy'' after hes had and affair and left me with three kids....

''Get a boyfriend, just for the company, not for sex and that'' ???

''I will f you before you f me''

''I will bury you''

''If it wasn't for the kids I would never speak to you again''

''You are just a bad memory''

when asked why he didnt want to work on our marriage at start ''I can't be bothered''

whilst walking all over town to see OW he ''has no energy'' to fix our marriage

''Your face annoys me''

''You don't love me, you love the idea of me''

''Do you mind if I date?'' (1 week after walking out the house...) :o

him ''You can't expect ME to be celibate for 2 years!'', me ''that was your choice not mine''

''I am definitely less stressed without YOU'' (living at his mothers house, without any responsibility, or three kids, playing xbox all day)

''Stop analysing me''

''It doesnt matter I will be at the bottom of the ocean anyway''

when I was dressed up ''Oh I'd do you''...''yet you haven't in like 6 weeks'' 8)

''You are still controlling me'' even though he had been out of the house for 4 weeks, with no real contact or watching the kids or anything.

Me ''why won't you speak to your family'', him ''Because I dont want to hear what they have to say'',
me ''what that you need help?'', him ''Yes'' manic laughter ::)

''Im not cheating, Im just hanging out eating pringles. Im really into pringles right now'', me ''yeah I bet your really enjoy those plain pringles'' 8)

''I can't tell you how Im feeling, you may be recording me'' on my £5 corded Argos phone.

''I dont feel love like other people''

me ''you will never find someone who has the same connection we do'', him ''good''

me ''you were so different this morning'', him ''That guy is dead, switched him off''


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Our Community / Re: New here
« Last post by Kanvan on Today at 11:12:35 AM »
Yes, SavingMySanity. He latches onto the 16 year old. I know that mine is using our son for his own reasons. Since I refuse contact and will not answer his texts,he thinks if he can get my youngest on his side he will tell him what I am doing. They are very manipulative and it is sad how they will use their own kids. The youngest is smart enough not to fall for his tricks but that doesn't mean he gives up trying.

Now faith is the substance of things hoped for, the evidence of things not seen. Hebrews 11:1

Me-48
H-46
S-27, S-21, S-16
BD- June 24th, 2017 moved out with OW
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Our Community / Re: Wife's MLC 8
« Last post by gman242 on Today at 11:07:58 AM »
thank you! I'm getting there, as I keep saying  ;D

I just looked at W's photos on my computer Vs phone and she still looks haggard.  :( Sunken, hollow eyes, drapey skin. it's all still there.

I don't know what she was trying to accomplish by telling me she can't eat and she's starving. I figured I covered my bases with my answer though. I'm in the same place, I can't do anything. I know she won't talk to OM about this stuff, so maybe she was reaching out. This is the part I don't like though.. there's nothing I can do while she's with him, but turn a blind eye toward it, wish her the best and carry on. 
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My heart breaks for that boy. I am so happy he has you in his life.

And that story about your S and the little girl who kicked everyone also had me in tears. Are you trying to ruin my makeup today Dove???  ;)

Walk it off. I’m heading to my cardio strength class hoping to shake some stuff off too.
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Song I guess I never put it together that yours was high energy since he never moved out. I initially thought mine was a wallower bc he cried so much. Turns out he’s super high energy with an OW, but also a stage 5 clinger. I’ll have to check out your earlier threads. Your words and advice on ithers’ Threads are always so on point.

Yay—light purple. Reconnection is not for the weak. But I am sure you are up for the task.
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Attaching!
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Our Community / Re: COOL HAND LUKE 9
« Last post by Thunder on Today at 10:53:40 AM »
Did I ever tell you how much I like your IC?  ha ha

I always agree with her.

I guess what she is saying is, get them through school and the reassess things, right?
I just worry it's such a long time for you to put your needs on hold.  If you can do this then we need to find a super hero cape for you AND MyBrain.   ;D

Not sure what we'd call you though.  You have to have a Super Hero name.
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Our Community / Re: New here
« Last post by SavingMySanity on Today at 10:51:50 AM »
Does your H have one child that he communicates more with?  Or attempts to at least?  Mine has latched onto D18 and I cannot figure out why and it concerns me.  I feel that he is using her for his own selfish reasons of course. 
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Our Community / Re: To anyone reconnected or recociled
« Last post by KeepItTogether on Today at 10:47:44 AM »
Thank you Goner—great article!!
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I agree, now you know his living situation is even worse than you thought.  Good!

Now you keep going, you're doing great!   ;)
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