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Offline Dumbfounded

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My Story Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #100 on: January 11, 2018, 09:55:07 AM »
Hawaii has been on my bucket list forever. 

Have a great time!! Tell Hawaii I am coming.   
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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #101 on: January 11, 2018, 10:17:17 AM »
I am so jealous of you right now 8) 8)

It's about 50 degrees out today, dropping back to the 20s tomorrow ::) ::)

I am LMAO imagining The Leaver shoveling not only snow but cat poop up!!!  Hahaha ...

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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #102 on: January 11, 2018, 12:19:22 PM »
Aloha, Nah.......
Enjoy!  Hope to see you in Cali soon.
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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #103 on: January 11, 2018, 03:15:41 PM »
Have fun in Hawaii, Nah.
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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #104 on: January 11, 2018, 04:35:41 PM »
Have fun.  I am also jealous.

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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #105 on: January 12, 2018, 08:58:01 PM »
Have a terrific trip Nah!!! Well deserved!!!!
I care🤗
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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #106 on: January 12, 2018, 09:19:47 PM »
We drove up the PCH.  E has done this many times, I have a few, son and gf, never.  They LOVED it.  At one point we stopped and saw a very large group of elephant seals sunbathing.  Son was in his glory as he has been a nature nut before he could even speak.  He really has a special way with animals and nature.
Your son and mine seem so alike. On the way home from Oregon the first time, we took a side trip because S wanted to see the elephants seals. Did you get to see the herd of zebras and cows just south and on the east side of the road?  That threw us for a loop, as I'd never seen a mixed herd like that before. S loved those seals.

Are you on Hawaii proper? We were there a few years back and got to see the eruptions and lava flows, as well as kayak with dolphins, walk through lava tubes, stay in a treehouse[   url]https://hawaiivolcanotreehouse.wordpress.com[/url], and swim with fish (of course). If you get a chance to island hop, Maui is my favorite for hiking and waterfalls. I hope you get to see all the Islands! I'd love to hear what your favorite adventures are. I need to plan some new ones.

Sounds like a wonderful trip.

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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #107 on: January 12, 2018, 09:29:46 PM »
We saw plenty of cows but no zebras... we did go to the San Diego zoo.

Right now we are on Oahu. Our cruise leaves tomorrow and Maui is our first stop.

We just got back from the sunset ( E is a sucker for sunsets).... we like to swim in the ocean while the sun is going down. 80 degrees and sunny!!! The weather has been awesome.
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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #108 on: January 13, 2018, 07:10:13 AM »
Sounds like you are having a blast nah. I'm so happy for you! I hope that one day I can be that happy again.
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No kids, no pets
MLC started 2015(??)
1st. BD 12/3/17 - H wants separation
12/21/17 - Separation agreement signed
2nd. BD 12/22/17 - I find out about affair after H told me there was no OW
12/22/17 - I moved out

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Re: How Far is Rock Bottom?
« Reply #109 on: January 17, 2018, 04:27:43 PM »
Oh I have always wanted to go on a Hawaiian cruise! Have a blast Nah.....not that I need to tell you that!
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