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Offline Seekingpatience

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Discussion Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #20 on: January 30, 2018, 02:03:19 AM »
Hi OldPilot,

I was wondering how to turn my new thread pink?

I asked Anjae who is no longer a Mod but at the time, she mentioned putting my thread on a watchlist and that my H and I should have been working toward reconnecting for at least 6 months and that would have been June/July 2017.

We are still reconnecting and I believe rebuilding at this time.

Would appreciate feedback on this.

Thanks, peace and strength  :)



Edit - Answered on your thread - OP
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #21 on: January 31, 2018, 10:00:45 AM »
Oops...just noticed my thread title spelling mistake  ::)
Could one of the mods correct the title from Archimedian Point to Archimemedean Point please, or it will just bug me!

Edit - Fixed - I hope - OP
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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #22 on: February 19, 2018, 07:58:37 AM »
HOW WOULD YOU KNOW IF A MIDLIFE CRISIS IS OVER AND THEY JUST DIDNT CHOOSE TO COME HOME?

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #23 on: February 19, 2018, 09:03:03 AM »
HOW WOULD YOU KNOW IF A MIDLIFE CRISIS IS OVER AND THEY JUST DIDNT CHOOSE TO COME HOME?
My opinion is that their actions would show you this.
What makes you think the crisis is over?
Have they made amends with their children or other significant people in their lives?

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #24 on: Today at 06:34:34 AM »
Well ithought he was reconnecting with old friends and the kids but an ammends so to say. No


 

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