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Offline OldPilotTopic starter

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Forum-Info Forum workings
« on: May 16, 2010, 05:02:02 AM »
The verification codes for each post.
Does that go away after you have posted so many times?
Congrats on getting this going. It looks really good!

And in purple!

Offline Rollercoasterider

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #1 on: May 16, 2010, 05:42:21 AM »
I do love purple...I can be myself again!

It took me a few minuts to figure out what the verification codes are--since I have enough posts that I do not see them.

Remember those PM spam issues we had at that other forum? Those PMers had zero posts. This was a security recommendation to discourage spam posters and yes, it only lasta for a few posts. It is set to either 10 or 25 I think.
I was supposed to set the ability to PMs for a number of posts also, but I don't think that has worked, so I'll need to recheck it.

Offline OldPilotTopic starter

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #2 on: May 16, 2010, 05:48:09 AM »
I think that the verification codes are an excellent idea, if it is only for a short time.

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2010, 11:05:20 AM »
I am so glad you started this forum, RCR.

I have followed your website since I found out about MLC in 2008. I have many, many times directed others to your site. You and I have had several email exchanges over the last 2 years.

Thanks!!!
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Offline OldPilotTopic starter

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #4 on: May 16, 2010, 02:26:54 PM »
Just for the record I tested the PM with D Money and it works GREAT!!!!

Offline MarkedandHealed

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #5 on: May 16, 2010, 07:42:27 PM »
PM! WE GET TO PM? YAY!!!!!!!!! ;D 8)
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The weak can never forgive.  Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.  ~Ghandi

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #6 on: May 17, 2010, 02:40:42 PM »
Heck, I didn't realize the PMs were working, LOL...this is a really nice site, RCR.  I've read through some of your articles, and you are a very accomplished, pen lady. :)

There is also a much more peaceful feeling about this board, and I like that very much! :) 

Believe I will hang out with you for some time, if you don't mind. :)
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There is hope as long as you love your MLC spouse, and, are willing to learn the  life's lessons that are set before you as a result of this crisis.

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #7 on: May 17, 2010, 06:02:06 PM »
I totally agree, HB. RCR's site is what led me to the belief my H is in MLC and probably saved my chances at saving my M... THANK YOU RCR for this great site. Like the vibe so far, and really like being able to reach out more in a community fashion.

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Once a woman has forgiven her man, she must not reheat his sins for breakfast.  ~Marlene Dietrich

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Offline OldPilotTopic starter

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #8 on: May 17, 2010, 06:44:19 PM »
Just for everyone's info. At this point there is a limit of  5 PM's until you run out of space. So you will have to delete them or send them to e-mail. Might be a function of server space.

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Re: Forum workings
« Reply #9 on: May 17, 2010, 06:59:50 PM »
Also I just got to 26 posts, the first 25 you must verify. Then it goes away on 26!!!! YEA!!!!

 

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