I don't know, this might already been answered on the site,(I know I've read some stuff on FOO) and if not, it might make a good thread.
just wondering if other LBS's can look at their spouses childhood and see MLC in their spouses or their own parents history.
I ask because, from what I've gathered (W's mom died when W was 12, so I never met her) MIL had an affair and they were in the D process when they decided to reconcile and then MIL pasted away a couple years later. I believe that MIL was about the same age as W. Additionally my mom was an MLCer also about the same age(40).(I shared what she had to say about her experience on my,backstory thread, she thinks W is acting irrationally but can relate)
just wondering