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Offline 1phoenix

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Discussion Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #10 on: May 10, 2017, 03:46:33 PM »
Could someone who has seen MLC through please look at my question on my link

Thanks
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Grace makes beauty out of ugly things.  U2 "Grace"

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #11 on: September 08, 2017, 03:30:36 AM »
He called me up on my  mobile phone about 20minutes ago but I didn`t answer and can`t understand that he didn`t it again on the landline as he knows I`m always at home working at this time of the day.

http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8985.msg615171#msg615171

Should I call him back or let him sweat????



Me: 56
MLCer: 57
Together since: 1986
Married: No
Children:No
Begin of P`s MLC: around Spring 2010
OW: YES, he`s living together with a 60 year old spinster (before they got together) who just happens to live up the road.
Animals: 1 doggie, belongs to both of us but MLCers has abandoned him

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #12 on: September 08, 2017, 03:46:10 AM »
Sorry about posting the question here, have put it on my own thread now.
Me: 56
MLCer: 57
Together since: 1986
Married: No
Children:No
Begin of P`s MLC: around Spring 2010
OW: YES, he`s living together with a 60 year old spinster (before they got together) who just happens to live up the road.
Animals: 1 doggie, belongs to both of us but MLCers has abandoned him

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #13 on: October 06, 2017, 08:49:13 AM »
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9366.130

post number 138, sorry to put this here but I need advice, anyone
"I've seen dreams that move the mountains, hope that doesn't ever end even when the sky is falling. I've seen miracles just happen, silent prayers get answered, broken hearts become brand new. That's what faith can do." Kutless

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #14 on: October 23, 2017, 04:11:25 AM »
   Can someone please link my old threads to my knew one.


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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #16 on: January 22, 2018, 06:22:14 AM »
DO mlcers know they are projecting? my h called me a coward ( don't even know why) . does he realize he was talking about himself?

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #17 on: January 24, 2018, 07:57:22 AM »
DO mlcers know they are projecting? my h called me a coward ( don't even know why) . does he realize he was talking about himself?
It is not unusual for MLC'er to project things onto others.
It is very possible he is doing this with you.

Whether he realizes it or not is another story, that is hard to say.

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #18 on: January 25, 2018, 12:21:42 PM »
What does "attaching" mean?  Is there something specific to do to attach, or does it just mean that someone's following your thread?
Thanks,
MCS

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Re: Ask a Mentor 9
« Reply #19 on: January 25, 2018, 12:52:45 PM »
it just mean that someone's following your thread
YES - this ^^^^^^^^^^^^

 

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