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My Story Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #130 on: January 02, 2018, 04:57:06 PM »
DF, Silver, SC, Tyks, Beyond,

Thanks for dropping in to respond to my post.   As you all know it's nice to have folks reply. 

Received a Happy New Year text from mrs. six surnames' most recent ex.  I have only talked to him once but it was lovely that he thought about me and sent good wishes.   I responded in kind.   Beyond - he's probably a nice guy that got hosed big time by this little gold digger. 

crA crA about sums it up, Tyks. 

Seems he might have a long shelf life in the tunnel of doom.   
After all, tomorrow is another day.

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Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #131 on: January 02, 2018, 06:12:35 PM »
I swear I will never understand these revolving door relationships. MOW2’s H reaches out to me every now and again and I am always like Whhhhhaaaaat? :o
Married 1998
MLC H 48
LBS W 47
D16, S12
BD March, 2016
Left home Sept 4, 2016 - living with parents
H filed for D - July 24, 2017

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Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #132 on: January 02, 2018, 06:26:34 PM »
Great recap Still to catch us up. Amazing how far you have come and I look forward to how much further you will be by the end of this year. It's going to be a great one for us.

It amazes me how 'invasion of the body snatchers' some of these MLCers are. To wake up one day on his birthday and run away, out of the blue.

At least I had a bit of warning.....most of us did. Not you though.
Me: 49
H: 40
S18, D15
Together for 19 years
BDay in 2004, 2011 and now March 5 2017
Ran away on 5 March BD
No OW
Returned home 'underdone' 1 July 2017.
Left again 22 October 2017.
H - Medicated & Zombie Like is NC

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Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #133 on: January 07, 2018, 01:44:02 AM »
Great recap SB, makes you realise how much has changed in the last couple of years.

Guessing that Mrs six surnames will be separated by the end of 2018 ;D

Also thinking the likelihood of that pole barn being gone by the end of 2018 is slim and that it is possible your ex H may begin contacting a bit more this year.

It is better if they moved further away, but the codependent nature of these MLCers is stops them from doing so.  Mine is still living one suburb away even know he has over an hour and a half drive to work each day, making a three hour round trip, doesn't contact me but lives close anyway ::)  in his court papers is stated in the drive to work was killing him but actually never thinks of moving.  Cray cray they all are :o

I'm hoping for less drama this year SB, but somehow doubt that it's going to be the case.
"And when they ask you about me and you find yourself thinking back on all of our memories,
I hope you ache in regret as the truth hits you like a bullet and you find yourself replying: ""She loved me more than anyone else in the entire world and I tried to destroy her."  He failed by the way. 
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8451.80 (Denjef's thread)

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Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #134 on: January 07, 2018, 08:44:23 AM »
DF, Silver, SC, Tyks, Beyond,

Thanks for dropping in to respond to my post.   As you all know it's nice to have folks reply. 

Received a Happy New Year text from mrs. six surnames' most recent ex.  I have only talked to him once but it was lovely that he thought about me and sent good wishes.   I responded in kind.   Beyond - he's probably a nice guy that got hosed big time by this little gold digger. 

crA crA about sums it up, Tyks. 

Seems he might have a long shelf life in the tunnel of doom.

What. The. He!!.  Bizarre Still! Soooooo bizarre.
Me 46
H 45
S11
BD 5/16
H Moved out 6/16
OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo.

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Re: Playing the hand I'm dealt (AKA acceptance)
« Reply #135 on: January 13, 2018, 09:40:57 AM »
Hi SB! Hope you are doing well!


 

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