Author Topic: My Story A Wrinkle in Time  (Read 1775 times)

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My Story A Wrinkle in Time
« on: March 01, 2018, 07:51:14 AM »
Starting my new thread. 
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9394.150
The meaning of the title I chose for my thread:  The image of the wrinkle is to explain the idea of a tesseract. Making a connection between two faraway things in a way that bypasses the distance between them.  It grapples with the knowledge that there are some things we just don't understand.  It is also a triumph of love.  Good over evil.  Light over dark.
Welcome to my new thread!
“In the end, you’ve got to be your own hero because everyone’s busy trying to save themselves.”

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #1 on: March 01, 2018, 08:21:34 AM »
Love your thread title, hero...following along (and don't you have to appreciate the awesomeness of a forum that can include 'tesseract' and 'bat snot bonkers' in its' posts  ;D )
T: 18  M: 12 (at BD)
No kids.
BD Oct 15. OW since Apr 16?
H filed Jan 17. Divorced April 18

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #2 on: March 01, 2018, 08:50:36 AM »
I absolutely love the title of your new thread!!! :)....following along...
Me-55
H - 55
Adult D- 35 ( our only child)
Married 37 yrs. married 33 yrs at time of BD
date of BD July 2015
OW- YES, 36 yr old Peruvian with a 67yr old son
H- moved out of our home in Oct 2015 & moved in with OW
H- says doesnt want divorce, wants long term separation. doesnt know what the future holds.
 H- Jan. 2017 he visits a fertility clinic.
 H - stopped seeing me in 2017.except for 3 emergency situations
 H- has introduced OW to his family and visits them often with OW.
 H- has introduced OW to a few of our friends.
 H- told me that OW does want him to divorce me and they have talked about getting married.
 Entering 2018. H has not filed for divorce.
He is still living with OW
 H & OW moved into a huge single family home in May 2018
 If you're going through Hell, keep going

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #3 on: March 01, 2018, 10:16:29 AM »
Love it Hero! My S is reading this book in his class right now.
Good over evil. Light over dark. Love everything about this. Still here with you my friend.
Me 46
H 45
S11
BD 5/16
H Moved out 6/16
OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo.

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #4 on: March 01, 2018, 10:27:50 AM »
Coming along Hero. 
Married 1998
MLC H 48
LBS W 47
D16, S12
BD March, 2016
Left home Sept 4, 2016 - living with parents
H filed for D - July 24, 2017
D final March 14, 2018 - still living at parent's house

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― Jalaluddin Rumi

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #5 on: March 01, 2018, 10:36:18 AM »
Thank you all for following me my LBS friends!
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“In the end, you’ve got to be your own hero because everyone’s busy trying to save themselves.”

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #6 on: March 01, 2018, 11:48:22 AM »
I'm here too, Hero!
Married 1989, together since 1984 
BD May 2014,
D23, D20, S13
OW Physical Affair. He and she said she turned 34 the month of BD. She turned 50 last year.

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #7 on: March 01, 2018, 11:56:48 AM »
Joining in.  Bring in the light.
H-53
me-51
ow-30
married 1986
BD April 6 2013 day after family went out for sons birthday.
I packed his bags two days later...semi-vanisher

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #8 on: March 01, 2018, 12:27:20 PM »
Hi Milly and Nah,
Good to have you along! :D
“In the end, you’ve got to be your own hero because everyone’s busy trying to save themselves.”

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Re: A Wrinkle in Time
« Reply #9 on: March 01, 2018, 06:43:08 PM »
Hero,

I'm here too!  Yes, your new thread has a great title.  I would expect no less from you, my friend!  Hiking the Grand Canyon sounds AMAZING!  Wish I could get away in October, I'd invite myself along :)
Married 10 1/2 years, together 17.  BD 9/2016, 2nd BD 10/16.  H moved out 10/16.  2 AS's from my first M.  Me 55, H 49.  OW 23.

"And once the storm is over, you won't remember how you made it through; how you managed to survive.  You won't even be sure if the storm is really over.  But one thing is certain; when you come out of the storm, you won't be the same person that walked in...that's what this storm is all about."

"The trick is to enjoy life.  Don't wish away your days, waiting for better ones."

 

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