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« Latest by FrenchHusband on May 13, 2024, 08:42:40 AM »Quote from: midlifecrisis50
“How do you know for sure that what has happened to your spouse is indeed a midlife crisis? What makes you believe that?”
As a matter of fact, I can not be sure that what happened to my wife is indeed a MLC. Here I found many similar stories to mine, in words and actions. I found here a brotherhood of people with similar situations. I found here very good advices from the so called LBS (the main advices written on this thread), and a key to understanding the situation I face at home. Now I feel relief from that understanding and I am to apply the advices that make sense for me.
I hope one day the MLC will be known and recognized as it is already the case for the teenage crisis. I believe that will help people under MLC, and that will help also the LBS to focus less on this crisis and more on themselves. Even if there are many similar patterns, each crisis is unique, so we can not foresee any good improvement from the "happy end" stories, and in my opinion it is best to not expect any improvement.