Quick bit of journaling;
After 3 days of loads of interaction and family time over Christmas, the last 2 days have seen a massive drop off in the amount of contact between myself and W - pretty much none TBH. That's fine, we spent a lot of time together over Christmas and I imagine it's fairly overwhelming for W and she needs to retreat a bit into her shell. I'm pretty sure she'll circle back around after the festive period - but who knows with these MLC folk?
As for me, yesterday was brilliant, had D12, S17 and his GF over for a really fun movie and pizza night. We had such a laugh, it was lovely to see D and S laughing and joking together! They are amazing kids.
Today myself and D12 took family friends (the 2 sons of my female BF - the ones that look like D12's siblings - and her exH) out to an incredible exhibition in London. The kids loved it. The art was performance and video based, but was quite adult in nature. I loved fielding the kids questions about the art - "Biscuit - what does it mean, what's it's supposed to be" etc... Well, what does it mean to you? How does it make you feel? What do you imagine the artist was feeling when she was performing that piece? The beauty of having kids come along to these types of things, is for me, their innocence, they aren't afraid to sound stupid or unsophisticated or uneducated in asking these questions. Made me think a lot about our adult lens on the world and how a fresh perspective often throws up new understanding in any situation. The exhibit was fun too, with interactive elements the kids could really get involved with.
We took them to another exhibition afterwards of impressionist art but by then they were a bit spent and the art didn't engage in the same way. Maybe we should have done the exhibitions the other way round!
Took the kids for food to one of our faves then back to our friends house for more socialising, catching up on life, wine and a huge dinner cooked by me and BF's exH. Really really fun day!
Tomorrow is NYE. I'm taking the kids to the football in the afternoon before dropping them over to their mum. She's got a load of our friends over for NYE drinks which I'm not invited to (which kind of smarts a weeny bit tbh, but less than it would have a few months ago!). Then I'm going for a new years dinner with another couple of our friends, then will maybe have a glass or two at a mates house and watch some fireworks.
I've bought W a bottle of champagne for her festivities tomorrow night and written a card saying that I hope 2024 will bring joy to her and that we will continue to strengthen our friendship - but I'm not sure if I should just give her the bottle, or the bottle and card or neither!
Happy New Year fellow LBSers, B x