1
Our Community / Re: •• Calming the crazy, life after divorce
« Latest by STP on Today at 09:26:25 PM »Journalling
It's been awhile so an update. I already sense 2026, will not be as great of a year as 2025 was. Ok, fine.
S24 bought a house 20 mins from me. His gf lives with him and her son, age 2. She's currently pregnant (not his) as a surrogate, doing it strictly for the $.
S26 is divorced now after a short 4 month marriage. I don't believe anyone has contact with her. He's still working a lot.
The other two sons are, I suspect living as usual.
KA and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary. We had a fancy meal out and also visited the Chicago Auto Show. In the card to me she wrote
Socially, I hosted my 11th annual white wine party, with 25 open bottles. KA wasn't able to attend due to volleyball but the usual people were there. I've had a few hikes and most notable absentees are JKR and TPB. JKR has an arm injury and cold weather increases the pain so she's not come and they are besties so no TPB either. Tonight JKR texted she has broken up with a guy friend of mine, known since 2018, so she will not be coming to parties until the dust settles. Which I expect would include her bestie. Probably won't see them for awhile.
After my last post i mentioned not texting TPB until she eventually sent me a text a few weeks later asking if I was upset with her. Said I just laid low after my behavior. Old news now. Unfortunately she is hanging around with a woman KRS I can't stand. I suspect this nasty woman will try and attend kayaking when I start it up in June. sigh. Bad enough she kinda crashed my wine party AND won best bottle. Grrr
This weekend is my Mardi Gras party. KA is out of town with her daughters volleyball. Attendance is just over 20 guests including my buddy JS. Friday night I'm on my own, and thought of going with a bunch of friends to a pizza place for karaoke, but right now I'm not caring to see JKR and TPB hanging with that nasty woman KRS. I was texting with MVT who attends my kayaking, hiking and some parties and we might hang out this Fri night. She's like 20 years younger, doesn't like to be photographed and has a severely handicapped son. I've driven her to some hikes and kayak trips, when she didn't have a car. She's had a hard time of it all and is trying to get a bf who will give her a baby. She's a beauty and reminds me of my ol friend MM, who lives in FL. No worry, there won't be any messing around.
It's been awhile so an update. I already sense 2026, will not be as great of a year as 2025 was. Ok, fine.
S24 bought a house 20 mins from me. His gf lives with him and her son, age 2. She's currently pregnant (not his) as a surrogate, doing it strictly for the $.
S26 is divorced now after a short 4 month marriage. I don't believe anyone has contact with her. He's still working a lot.
The other two sons are, I suspect living as usual.
KA and I just celebrated our 8th anniversary. We had a fancy meal out and also visited the Chicago Auto Show. In the card to me she wrote
Quote
You are worth so much more than you think. You are one of the reasons I am still going. You crossed my path at a time I thought I did not need anyone and you have shown me I needed you the most. You are so appreciated and loved.It was so sweet I had her read it to me. She has been very busy, with the building of her new home, her D13 volleyball schedule and arranging for her mom, age 85, to go into an assisted living facility, probably next month.
Socially, I hosted my 11th annual white wine party, with 25 open bottles. KA wasn't able to attend due to volleyball but the usual people were there. I've had a few hikes and most notable absentees are JKR and TPB. JKR has an arm injury and cold weather increases the pain so she's not come and they are besties so no TPB either. Tonight JKR texted she has broken up with a guy friend of mine, known since 2018, so she will not be coming to parties until the dust settles. Which I expect would include her bestie. Probably won't see them for awhile.
After my last post i mentioned not texting TPB until she eventually sent me a text a few weeks later asking if I was upset with her. Said I just laid low after my behavior. Old news now. Unfortunately she is hanging around with a woman KRS I can't stand. I suspect this nasty woman will try and attend kayaking when I start it up in June. sigh. Bad enough she kinda crashed my wine party AND won best bottle. Grrr

This weekend is my Mardi Gras party. KA is out of town with her daughters volleyball. Attendance is just over 20 guests including my buddy JS. Friday night I'm on my own, and thought of going with a bunch of friends to a pizza place for karaoke, but right now I'm not caring to see JKR and TPB hanging with that nasty woman KRS. I was texting with MVT who attends my kayaking, hiking and some parties and we might hang out this Fri night. She's like 20 years younger, doesn't like to be photographed and has a severely handicapped son. I've driven her to some hikes and kayak trips, when she didn't have a car. She's had a hard time of it all and is trying to get a bf who will give her a baby. She's a beauty and reminds me of my ol friend MM, who lives in FL. No worry, there won't be any messing around.
Recent Posts

