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Discussion Re: Anyone else have a vanisher 21?
#150: September 22, 2019, 02:44:17 PM
Contact a lawyer to protect your finances.

You started a Facebook group?  That’s great. Send me a message with the information and I’ll join!!
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H-55
me-53
ow-31
married 1986
BD April 6 2013 day after family went out for sons birthday.
I packed his bags two days later...semi-vanisher
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher 21?
#151: September 22, 2019, 02:51:11 PM
Same! I’ve deactivated my Facebook for a bit but when I go back live I’d love to join.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher 21?
#152: September 22, 2019, 03:35:31 PM
I would like to join too!
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Married 23 years
Husband is 46
Me-42
4 kids 9-18 years old
BD-October 2018-ILYBNIL, wants a divorce, 2 OW at different times.
April 2019 He got an apartment and moved out.
Oct 2019-Apologized for a years worth of monster behavior.  Still wants to start divorce this Spring, is distant, but friendly.  Tries more with kids, but superficial.
2020-He has continued to help out when asked and be polite.  I do think he questions his choices at times.  I do not believe he has OW.
Oct 2020-He wants to get back together.  I am unsure. 
August 2021-.  He has shown very gradual, but consistent progress.  He moved back home.
December 2022-He has been home for 1 1/2 years reconnecting, in the room with me for several months. I now consider us reconciled.
October 2023-After two years home and being the man he should be, I finally fully let him back into my heart.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher 21?
#153: September 23, 2019, 02:01:21 AM
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