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#150: December 16, 2021, 02:46:21 AM
Thanks for the words of sanity. I just want to add get your booster if you have not done so, it really makes a big difference!
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First signs of MLC Jan '15
BD 1 Jan '17, BD 2 Mar, Separated Apr, BD 3 May,BD 4 Jun '18
First Sign of Waking up-Dec '17, First Cycle out of MLC Mar '18-Jun ‘18, Second cycle Jul '18-??
Meets OM Jan '17 and acts "in love," admits "in love" Jun '18, asks for divorce Jul '18

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#151: December 16, 2021, 04:03:36 AM
And, while you are at it, start a new thread!

I got my Appointment for my Booster moved from January to next Tuesday (21 December) so 5 months instead of 6

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Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
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House sold & separated - Mar 2016
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#152: December 16, 2021, 04:19:18 AM
Meh. I got the jabs because we had booked to go to Fiji next year  obviously not gunna happen.
But work might force me to get it or no work....
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#153: December 16, 2021, 09:50:22 AM
Scheduled for my booster this Sunday. So over it it all.  Just want get some stamps in my passport in 2022. Sigh.   
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D16, S12
BD March, 2016
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H filed for D - July 24, 2017
D final March 14, 2018 - still living at parent's house

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#154: December 31, 2021, 12:57:05 PM
I am hopefully going to be able to get my booster now that I am coming out of the 90 day window.  It's definitely going around like crazy here.  Our passports are on the way, but it doesn't look like Germany will be a likelihood in May, perhaps later in the year.  My SIL is watching it.

Like DF, I would like to travel in 2022, but we will see.
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#155: January 10, 2022, 03:07:16 AM
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H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
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