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My Story Johnny Bravo 2
OP: October 19, 2021, 06:22:00 AM
Previous thread:
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11822.0

Wow, my first second thread...
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« Last Edit: October 19, 2021, 06:41:26 AM by JohnnyBravo »

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#1: October 19, 2021, 08:45:49 AM
Congrats JB  :D
It goes by fast doesn't it?

Attaching  :)

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Together 27 years, M 24
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BD - 27th April 2019
Start of Shadow - Feb 2012

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#2: October 19, 2021, 08:47:43 AM
I’m following too JB.

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Re: Johnny Bravo 2
#3: October 19, 2021, 10:08:00 AM
Stringing along... 8)
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"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."

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#4: October 19, 2021, 12:11:38 PM
Attaching for your continued story 🙂
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H-54 W-58 at BD2 M 7/6/91 Kids d-30 s-28 d-14 (dies 2009)
2013- moments of disconnect
Aug 2016 promo requires travel   
Oct 2017-total disconnect
Jan 2018-I force moved out
Mar 2018- BD1 found old phone 3 EA in 2017-H  agrees to therapy
EA ow1-49,  EA-ow2 57, (EA- ow3-58 not reciprocated by ow)
Sept ‘18  2nd Home in new state bought for job
Oct 2018 H moves home
Oct 2020 BD2 does not return home from B trip H move to 2nd home.OW4
Dec 10 ‘20 div filed/H buy prom ring 12/12
Feb 10 ‘21  div final
March ‘21  H & OW on vaca get secretly engaged
July 2021  married OW(find out May‘22)
Oct 2021   XH moves in OW(already married,tells nobody)& SD1
Feb 2022  XH is fired -vanisher
Aug 2022. XH moves in 2nd SD2
Dec 2022. XH starts communication after 1Omths
Dec-current  frequent communication

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Johnny Bravo 2
#5: October 19, 2021, 01:14:51 PM
Following along…
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#6: October 19, 2021, 05:46:55 PM
N00b question: Does attaching actually do anything? I still see update notices on threads I haven't commented on. (I do appreciate all of the people who are interested, though. I do follow a lot of other threads here, but generally feel I don't have too much to contribute yet.)

On the legal front, I did get a mid-month invoice from the lawyer (which seems odd) for ten minutes of assistant time to discuss "status of case and next steps." But if it were anything big, I suppose I would have heard something. I assume we have some kind of waiting period in this state, so at this point I don't think things will be wrapped up before the holidays. So there, rushing W.

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Johnny Bravo 2
#7: October 19, 2021, 05:53:28 PM
N00b question: Does attaching actually do anything? I still see update notices on threads I haven't commented on. (I do appreciate all of the people who are interested, though. I do follow a lot of other threads here, but generally feel I don't have too much to contribute yet.)

On the legal front, I did get a mid-month invoice from the lawyer (which seems odd) for ten minutes of assistant time to discuss "status of case and next steps." But if it were anything big, I suppose I would have heard something. I assume we have some kind of waiting period in this state, so at this point I don't think things will be wrapped up before the holidays. So there, rushing W.

My lawyer once didn’t answer my emails for a couple of weeks and then on the itemized bill there was a huge charge for reading my emails. 🙄🙄🙄

Attaching to a thread sends an email notification when there’s a new post. You can also just hit the “notify” button which does the same thing. Sometimes I find that that’s better because especially for newbies or hot discussion topic threads, sometimes the first one or two full pages of s thread can just be filled with comments that simply say “attaching.”
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#8: October 20, 2021, 04:37:17 AM
N00b question: Does attaching actually do anything? I still see update notices on threads I haven't commented on. (I do appreciate all of the people who are interested, though. I do follow a lot of other threads here, but generally feel I don't have too much to contribute yet.)

By replying to a post (even putting the single word "attaching")  you will find the posts then later whenever someone posts to that thread under the "New Replies to my posts" link on the left side under the Hello <Username> .  there is a link for ALL unread posts since the last time you logged in and a link for those that you have actually commented on (this assumes that, since you commented, you are interested).

The "Notify" button (as Nas pointed out) at the bottom of the page, triggers a rule that sends an e-mail to you whenever a specific thread is updated. I'd advise to use this with caution as, if you "Notify" from many different threads, you may end up getting LOTS of e-mails, especially if the thread is popular.  You probably want to trigger the Notify on your own thread so you know when people reply to you (for example).

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Johnny Bravo 2
#9: October 21, 2021, 03:17:51 PM
Interesting, W texted me today asking me to look for her birth certificate, and then a few minutes later that she found it. Not sure if I should just ignore this, or reply with a thumbs up as a "smart contact."

I can't imagine what she'd need it for, but then again she may want me to wonder that. (I don't think I've ever needed mine.)
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