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My Story Time for a break
#150: February 03, 2022, 03:37:58 AM
And, because I am a real "bear"  for keeping the rules ;D and I get to make Post number 150,.....

You need to start a new thread!

But, while I am here, like Marvin noted, you've made some serious progress in a very short period of time...

And yeah, Mid-Lifers and personal responsibility/accountability go together like screen doors and submarines...
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Me - 59, xW - 51
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 15, D - 12
2 Dogs
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
Moved on in life

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Time for a break
#151: February 03, 2022, 02:49:49 PM
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"Trying to taste green with my elbow ;-)"

Im always reminded of that 80's movie.. War Games.. The best way to win is not to play the game.

Affair found out April 2021
BD June 23rd 2021
Moved out July 8th 2021(Same day our granddaughter was born)
Back with LO Dec 2021
Moved in with AP May 2022.


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