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My Story She's My Kind of Rain
#150: May 01, 2022, 03:07:28 PM
Totally in the same place. I love the house, but dont need this big of a house .Also looked at lake homes, lofts, moving to a different state. Part of be doesn’t want to be where he left me.  I feel the same as you .It wont change my state of limbo. I feel finally content. Look forward to the weekends. I am starting home improvements I always wanted done and gardening again. That alone feels like some progression. At least not in the “ what’s the point” mode :)
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H-54 W-58 at BD2 M 7/6/91 Kids d-30 s-28 d-14 (dies 2009)
2013- moments of disconnect
Aug 2016 promo requires travel   
Oct 2017-total disconnect
Jan 2018-I force moved out
Mar 2018- BD1 found old phone 3 EA in 2017-H  agrees to therapy
EA ow1-49,  EA-ow2 57, (EA- ow3-58 not reciprocated by ow)
Sept ‘18  2nd Home in new state bought for job
Oct 2018 H moves home
Oct 2020 BD2 does not return home from B trip H move to 2nd home.OW4
Dec 10 ‘20 div filed/H buy prom ring 12/12
Feb 10 ‘21  div final
March ‘21  H & OW on vaca get secretly engaged
July 2021  married OW(find out May‘22)
Oct 2021   XH moves in OW(already married,tells nobody)& SD1
Feb 2022  XH is fired -vanisher
Aug 2022. XH moves in 2nd SD2
Dec 2022. XH starts communication after 1Omths
Dec-current  frequent communication
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Re: She's My Kind of Rain
#151: May 03, 2022, 01:30:58 PM
MadLuv - I found that physical activity was a good way for me to move forward. Something to keep my mind busy and the physical activity helped keep some of the stress away.
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Re: She's My Kind of Rain
#152: May 06, 2022, 06:43:14 AM
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#153: May 06, 2022, 02:16:32 PM
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A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."
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Re: She's My Kind of Rain
#154: May 06, 2022, 02:17:40 PM
LOL - Thank you, Thunder.  ;)
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