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My Story Take Your Time, You'll Get There Quicker
#20: April 05, 2024, 07:06:21 AM
Hahaha KD  :P ain’t no party like a 24 month party! (S-Club 7 people will understand this) Life on the other side is pretty similair from where you’re standing! But from what I’ve read I think we match well personality-wise and deal with the situation in the same kind of ways.

I recognize totally that everything triggers less but that sometimes our (x)H’s sweep us down with them when we’re in contact! Mostly I’m okay but I’ve had a trigger last weekend and was down this week, but I recover faster and faster so that means we’re in a healing path!

It’s beautifull to love so deeply, I do the same! I wouldn’t have it any other way. I was really afraid that this experience would lead to trust issues or not loving entirely again but I’m still (sort of) the same person I was. If I love someone I’m all in! It may lead to another heartbreak in the future but this experience also learned that I can survive that heartbreak. “Tis better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all.”
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Together for 15 years, married for 4 years
H: 33, me: 33, D: 1,5
BD: april '22 (EA + 'I want to live alone, have no responsibilities')
Left home: june '22
Divorce final: october '22

“They didn’t cheat because of who you are. They chose to cheat because of who they’re not.” ~ Charles J. Orlando
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#21: April 05, 2024, 07:09:11 PM
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It may lead to another heartbreak in the future but this experience also learned that I can survive that heartbreak.

Yes, and this is true for all sorts of things, including new relationships. We can survive the worst of heartbrakes and survive. A really important and hard leason.
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#22: April 08, 2024, 01:03:58 AM
Thank you all for the affirmative words. And I love the image of slowing dissipating waves.
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