7 years Savoir Faire WOW sorry that he doesn’t reply!
OK, I have a new update. I am 2 years out from my bankruptcy and I have been pre approved to look for a place. I can’t believe I am now at that place I thought would never happen. I am so excited to see my life coming together.
I am taking the money out of the IRA I have from ex. I am also paying off the taxes that ex owes because I do not want to be glued to him any long. I have already taken the money and can’t wait to pay off the taxes.
So here’s the new stuff
I can’t ex today. He had to call me back. He’s definately at a different place. I called to let him know I was paying off the 2014 taxes.
He was quiet.
I said this is the last straw that has been over me and I need this off my plate. Also, I need you to start paying me something. I don’t want to go to court, I don’t want to humiliate you at work with papers and I don’t want to have you put in jail for all the things you have not done. I want us to work this out . And you will not believe what he said first time he has said anything like this
Yeah, I am at a place I can now send you money. It’s been hard to grow a business and then Covid came but I can said money. I said can you also pay me back the taxes money too? he said he could over time. Asked me the amount. He asked if I have a paypal. I said yes, paypal, Venmo, cash app and Zelle. He said lol I can only work paypal.
I told him I had radiation treatment this week and he asked me a little about that. When we got off the phone he said. Sorry about all the stuff you had to go through.
I starting crying and tried to no let him know but couldn’t get the word bye out.
He’s using sentences now in his sorry. He really doesn’t know what he put me through. Sorry right now isn’t the kind of sorry I need but he’s getting closer and closer to understanding.
He has never said that he would help. It’s always I don’t have the money this conversation was different. He is understanding he has a responsibility. I don’t think they were just word. Time will tell. He said he gets paid once a month so I’ll know when the money will actually come in. LOL! I gave him before Christmas.
I think he’s waking up.