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My Story Aliens stole my W!!!!! Part 14: "I want my M(LC)-TV!!!"
#90: January 24, 2023, 01:53:41 PM
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Another great post. I love reading your updates, the emergence of pieces of a new W or maybe bits of the old too is really fascinating, particularly to me, so early in on this journey.
 You seem in a really good place to take on whatever aspects this throws at you. Really wonderful to read.

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Aliens stole my W!!!!! Part 14: "I want my M(LC)-TV!!!"
#91: January 24, 2023, 05:16:00 PM
So true.  It all comes down to a daily choice and a slow reconnection if that is what you both chose.  The tables were definitely turned for us as well.  I had and to some extent still have my walls up.  He did for so long and now he doesn’t, but I do.  I’m sure that is a normal part of this process. 

You have done so well with your emotions on this journey. 
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Married 22 years
Husband is 45
Me-42
4 kids 8-18 years old
BD-October 2018-ILYBNIL, wants a divorce, 2 OW at different times.
April 2019 He got an apartment and moved out.
Oct 2019-Apologized for a years worth of monster behavior.  Still wants to start divorce this Spring, is distant, but friendly.  Tries more with kids, but superficial.
2020-He has continued to help out when asked and be polite.  I do think he questions his choices at times.  I do not believe he has OW.
Oct 2020-He wants to get back together.  I am unsure. 
August 2021-.  He has shown very gradual, but consistent progress.  He moved back home.
December 2022-He has been home for 1 1/2 years reconnecting, in the room with me for several months. I now consider us reconciled.

 

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