Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses
Midlife Crisis => Our Community => Topic started by: Shantilly Lace on November 30, 2011, 06:27:31 PM
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Ok we have a few now that are attempting this so I will try and add the links so they can be found. These are attempts so that newbies as well as others can see it as a process not an over night thing and that it isn't easy.
Please note that it can cycle back as well.
If I miss a thread please let one of the moderators know so we can add.
A link to a thread for support that has links to other places for help (convoluted I know lol)
Reconciliation Support
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2364.0 (http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2364.0)
New Icons
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3343.0
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Sassyone
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1837.0
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Hyperglad
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1853.0
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Patience
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1058.0
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THANK YOU FOR POINTING THESE OUT!!!
These are serious, reconnection attempts.... this is how it all starts, people.... the LBS has to be READY..... forgiveness must be felt.... and gratitude for the miracles in your life and lessons learned is necessary.... the MLCer comes back in stops and starts... pressure for him to be "Whole and well" before he can come back is a WALL that will keep the two of you apart....
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Courageous Wife (started out as Confused Wife)
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=670.0
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BonBon
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1743.0
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Wondering
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1883.0
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3688.0
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Angel61
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1410.0
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Gallagher
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1937.0
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You must be a Subscribers forum in order for this link to work
Angelgirl
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=1124.0
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Strong Girl
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2260.0
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Mermaid
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2154.0
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Rebel Yell
Link removed
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Although NOT a reconnection story this link may have some information in it that will help get through the hurt.
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2480.0
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Evas
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2771.0
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RainbowGal
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6423.0
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Smitty2929
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2192.0
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willitgetbetter
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2789.0
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summer progress
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2328.0
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crazyforhim
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3192.0
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JD
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3898.0
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ForeverStander
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3953.0
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STP
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4735.0
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31andcounting
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6789.0
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flying solo
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4148.0
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MickiW
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4190.0
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Resilient
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6680.0
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Both RCR (Rollercoasterider) and Stayed have been reconciled for many years. Their threads were not here because on the board earlier days everyone knew their story. We now have many new members that may not be aware of their stories so their links will be included on this thread.
Rollercoasterider http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4326.0
Stayed http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3816.0
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OSB
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4138.0
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Riverbirch
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5293.0
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hopeandfaith
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5507.0
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barbiedoll
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7338.0
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sobeit
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8561.0
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holdinon2hope
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7526.0
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emerging_butterfly
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4615.0
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eternity
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6561.0
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sada
http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8151.0
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NotGivingUpOnU http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=2277.0
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BBhelp http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8080.0
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Heart to Heart - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8222.0
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Navigator - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8237.0
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Mamma Bear: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=5731.0
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Slow Fade: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=7753.0
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Opportunity to Grow - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=6489.0
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star1009 - http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=3077.msg565981#msg565981
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Vanisher - Return Stories (http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=9088.0)
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When Tragedy Ushers in a Blessing - ShopGirl - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10095 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10095)
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His MLC and my Journey - KellBell - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11902.0 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11902.0)
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Moving Forward after MLC - FindingJoy - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=12061 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=12061)
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Working through the Process - seekingpatience - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=12070 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=12070)
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We Rise, We Heal, We Overcome - SlowFade - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11728 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11728)
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The Heart Behind the Hurt - barbiedoll - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11855 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11855)
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New Chapter Please - hopeandfaith - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11256 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11256)
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Time Marches On - Curiosity - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11964 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11964)
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Working it Out 25 - songanddance - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11849 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11849)
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Whoever Thought I'd Be Here - JoJoJo - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10757 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10757)
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Bomb dropped in 2008 | Still married and together 10 years later - Navigator - https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10053.0 (https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10053.0)
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Storm Chaser: https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=8395.0;all
Possibly MLT that was not a crisis. What's the difference? I wrote this article to help determine if a Midlife Transition is also a crisis:
Was it a short Midlife Transition or an incomplete Midlife Crisis? (https://loveanyway.theherosspouse.com/2023/10/03/was-it-a-short-midlife-transition-or-an-incomplete-midlife-crisis/)