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My Story Reconnecting Re: Sometimes Darkness Can Show You The Light
#150: March 02, 2021, 01:08:45 AM
I'm ready either way. I know my value, I know my strength and he'd better not cross this warrior again. He may not like the outcome......

I am so with you on this.  Newbies read this and learn from it.

Know your strength. Know your value.  Be ready either way.
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OW for 3.5 years - finishing Autumn 2016
Reconnection started 2017 and still going with no sign of reconciliation.

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Sometimes Darkness Can Show You The Light
#151: March 02, 2021, 02:20:23 AM
And be ready to start a new thread!


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Me - 58, xW - 51
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 14, D - 11
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BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019

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Sometimes Darkness Can Show You The Light
#152: March 02, 2021, 09:48:21 AM
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