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#150: December 22, 2020, 01:19:30 PM
Happy Birthday, FN x
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#151: December 22, 2020, 06:48:25 PM
Happy Birthday, FN!  Hope you had a great day. 

Thunder mentioned there is no snow in her area - I'm 3 hours north of her and I have snow and 4-6 more inches coming tomorrow!  It will be a white Christmas in my neck of the woods.....and cold!  Lots of degrees below zero when it stops snowing! 

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#152: December 23, 2020, 04:39:33 AM
Hope that you had a Happy Birthday FN... Now it is time for a new thread...

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