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My Story Get Through Today
#150: August 08, 2021, 09:49:19 AM
Thank you everyone.
I need to start a new thread but will just note a couple of things here first.

Offroad - in truth I'm struggling a bit. I'm getting better as each day passes but I had got used to him being around and hearing from him. I worked out (for the purpose of journaling) that he's been back around for the best part of a year now. Did I have expectations? Probably - so my fault. He'd just been here so much.
I need to get used to him being gone again. I'm working on it but it's hard.

Roo. Thanks for posting. You're so right about having power over ourselves. I'm just working out how I want to use that I think. What I want to do.

Rose it's good to hear from you. I know! 5 years and still counting. I'm not sure if I'm standing anymore.

I know PJ but it's so good to read your posts and how you moved on. A strength I have yet to find.

New thread:

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Adult S & D
BD: April 2016
Many false returns.
Effectively moved out Nov 2017 [worked away from home. Home occasional weekends]
Moved out full time: July 2018 after he renewed contact with OW.
OW: old school friend lives 200+ miles away.


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