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#150: October 19, 2021, 06:35:31 AM
The introvert/extrovert thing is just another set of smoke and mirrors to justify her actions....

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xW had a similar Litany - "We never DO anythign together" while ignoring the fact that, for nearly any suggestion I'd make, it was either turned down or cancelled because she "didn't feel good" and she wouldn't make suggestions on her own....

Yup, just like her having tattoos and me me only having one little one was an EXCELLENT reason to crater a marriage.  :D I had exactly the same experience as yours. "Why don't we go out to a bar this weekend?" "I'm not eating carbs so I can't drink, and if I can't drink I don't want to go out." First thing she does after moving out? Goes to a bar.

I agree with both of you that intro/extro is a spectrum. And, I think that's one of those things to have a balance of in a relationship, rather than a match. i.e. it's important that we both didn't want children. That's a major life trajectory. The IV and EV is more complimentary. (And our friends thought we were a good match, so I think we had a good balance there.) I wouldn't want to marry someone who was just like me, wouldn't be much of a point. I'm already with me all of the time.

Time for a new thread... https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=11847.0
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