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#150: May 05, 2021, 06:44:28 AM
Exactly—we know the people they were when we married them. Now they are a shell of that person.  My Hs OW is beyond broken to keep chasing him as if he were the answer to all her prayers, and yet she told me how often they break up and fight. Sounds amazing!

And that silence after they run back in the tunnel afterwards is deafening. But like you say, we move on quicker and quicker.
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OW--yes. Worked for H. EA turned into PA while I was in chemo. On again/off again like every high school romance

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#151: May 05, 2021, 08:55:57 AM
But like you say, we move on quicker and quicker.

And it is time for you to move on too... to a new thread!

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Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
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BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019

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#152: May 05, 2021, 04:02:12 PM
You find the best pics.

I think I created the new thread correctly if you want to close this one. If I didn’t do it right please let me know.

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