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My Story New Plan A
#120: November 18, 2021, 02:33:26 AM
Congrats on your one month!!! So sorry to here W has been the weather. I can also so relate. My M ended right before our 30 year mark as well, which was so important to me. Maybe a little FOO for me due to my own parents divorce after decades and not ever wanting that to happen, but you found a new love  and nee memories are to come and a new life shared. You give us al hope that our day will come and the love we deserve is stikl around the corner. Enjoy!!
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H-54 W-58  M 7/6/91 Kids d-30 s-28 d-14 (dies 2009)
2013- moments of disconnect start
Aug 2016 promotion requires travel   
Oct 2017-total disconnect
Jan 2018- moved out H
Mar 2018- BD1 found old phone 3 EA ‘17-H in therapy
EA ow1-49,  EA-ow2 57, (EA- ow3-58 not reciprocated)
Sept ‘18 -2nd Home in new state H new job
Oct 2018-H moves home
Oct 2020 BD2 does not return home from B trip
Nov 2020 H move to 2nd home in other state OW4
Div filed-Dec ‘20   Div final-Feb ‘21
Oct 2021- XH moves in OW4


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