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My Story Towards the place where all loose ends go
#10: February 19, 2021, 05:33:09 PM
Joining for the next adventure  :D

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#11: February 19, 2021, 09:30:48 PM
Following along Nas. Hope you feel better soon.

The Outsiders - Nice! I was just in Tulsa a couple months ago and stopped by the house they used for the movie.

Stay gold, y'all.
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Together 28 years, married 27. Two adult kids, ours

BD #1: 2016 - EA  |  BD #2: 2018 - FA

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#12: February 20, 2021, 04:58:11 AM
       Hi Nas following along! My dog is named Soda Pop lol I love that movie. I do hope you feel better soon . Sending Good Vibes your way !
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#13: February 20, 2021, 10:53:02 AM
Attaching

I am thinking that I have actually never seen The Outsiders.  Hmmm.
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#14: February 20, 2021, 11:43:37 AM
Stay Golden, Nas!

You can't lose with any S.E. Hinton adaptation. And you know my feelings on Duran Duran... :-*
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#15: February 20, 2021, 12:00:53 PM
How are you feeling, today, Nas? 
Did cake help?
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#16: February 21, 2021, 04:56:18 PM
How are you feeling, today, Nas? 
Did cake help?

Actually, I received an unexpected gift of cake and it really helped a ton even though I haven’t tasted it yet. (I can’t wait because it looks delicious.)  I’m waiting for my fever to break.

I spent all day on the couch under a heated throw blanket, falling asleep on and off while episodes of House played in the background  (I loved that show but had forgotten about it). As I was making myself some soup and a cup of tea with honey, I realized this is exactly like when I would get sick during my marriage. So I’m not really missing having someone here because I’m still taking care of myself with no help. 🙄

I’m loving all the love you guys have for Duran Duran and The Outsiders.  ;)

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#17: February 22, 2021, 05:58:32 AM
Some soup and tea with honey.  And a gift of cake.  I hope your fever flees in the face of such powerful enemies.
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#18: February 22, 2021, 11:13:11 AM
Hi Nas. Hope you are feeling better. I chuckled a little when you said taking care of yourself now is the same as when in your marriage--no help.  It is so important that we not idealize our marriages as they were just b/c we were abandoned. Good reminder.

And oh do I adore Duran Duran and the Outsiders. I just watched it with S14 a few months ago. He loved it too.

Enjoy your cake my friend--both literal and figurative.
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Re: Towards the place where all loose ends go
#19: February 22, 2021, 03:05:02 PM
Dear Nas, I hope your fever will break at any second. Me too I had to take care of myself when I had a fever. Good point you make! Actually, your H sounds like a clone of my H.

Hope the honey tea and House (loved that show) get you up and going very soon.x
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