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#10: April 08, 2019, 02:33:10 AM
Thanks for sharing this great article. Sometimes, I feel extremly lonely and think I am the only one going through this kind of miserable journey seeing my once caring and loving husband slipping away everyday and becoming someone whom I don’t know anymore 😭

I was at my friend’s place having a chat during which time her husband called to let her know that he just landed in Beijing.  This kind of small act to me is a luxury these days.

I had a dinner with a friend of mine last week and she brought her husband along. Seeing them chatting and laughing casually, I wonder when I would have fun time with my husband again.

Life is so hard.
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#11: April 08, 2019, 04:53:34 AM
Hey renqing I know how you feel. It’s not so much the husband leaving it’s more the damage to my little girl and that we have missed out on so much family time. He’s missed her growing up. Do you live in Asia?
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BD 1 - January 6, 2018 moves out
November 2018 - moves back in for 1 month then leaves saying relationship over, wants a divorce then flies over last minute to be with OW on holiday.
BD 2 - OW confirmed December 14, 2018 - meeting up with her for holiday
BD3 - engaged to OW December 21, 2018
BD 4 - tells me he is moving back to home country on January 27, 2019. Gives me 5 days notice. His flight date is February 1, 2019.

I just want the money and him out of my life!
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#12: April 08, 2019, 07:44:51 AM
I am living in China. Divorce rate is going up every year and mid aged men chasing after younger women becomes an epidemic phenomenon for in a shallow way it is an indication of success and manhood.
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#13: April 08, 2019, 08:05:13 AM
Renqing - I used to live in Hong Kong. My favorite place but it’s just too expensive to live there.
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BD 1 - January 6, 2018 moves out
November 2018 - moves back in for 1 month then leaves saying relationship over, wants a divorce then flies over last minute to be with OW on holiday.
BD 2 - OW confirmed December 14, 2018 - meeting up with her for holiday
BD3 - engaged to OW December 21, 2018
BD 4 - tells me he is moving back to home country on January 27, 2019. Gives me 5 days notice. His flight date is February 1, 2019.

I just want the money and him out of my life!
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Re: Article on MLC
#14: April 08, 2019, 11:06:46 AM
Quote from: Limboland2018 on April 08, 2019, 01:59:05 AM
https://www.smh.com.au/lifestyle/life-and-relationships/how-to-pick-a-male-midlife-crisis-and-what-to-do-about-it-20190403-p51aet.html

Just realized I posted the wrong link in my first post.
The other link was also good! A lot of stuff that made me nod anyway 🙄
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H "finally" asks for divorce - Aug 2020
H marries OW - March 2021.. We are not divorced!
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Re: Article on MLC
#15: April 08, 2019, 10:34:03 PM
One day - the first article link is spot on for me. Everything.
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Me- 47 at BD
MLC husband -45 at BD
1 daughter - 2 1/2 years at BD
BD 1 - January 6, 2018 moves out
November 2018 - moves back in for 1 month then leaves saying relationship over, wants a divorce then flies over last minute to be with OW on holiday.
BD 2 - OW confirmed December 14, 2018 - meeting up with her for holiday
BD3 - engaged to OW December 21, 2018
BD 4 - tells me he is moving back to home country on January 27, 2019. Gives me 5 days notice. His flight date is February 1, 2019.

I just want the money and him out of my life!
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