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#60: September 30, 2020, 02:28:42 PM
I am so sorry to hear that MsMedfly and will add you to my prayers...what a shock to find that out at age 43..and then all the chemo and radiation.....

I keep telling myself...God has a plan.

You take good care of yourself and your loved ones....I have much to be grateful for but BD created in me a tremendous amount of "fear" and anxiety and everything seems bigger than it really is.

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#61: October 01, 2020, 06:20:56 PM
xyz - sending some good thoughts through cyber space. 

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#62: October 02, 2020, 06:14:20 AM
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  I'm sorry to hear about your health issues . You was very helpful to me and I will be there for you if you need to vent,scream just whatever all you need to do is message me .

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#63: October 06, 2020, 06:25:54 AM
Thanks to all of you. My "virtual" family.

The test results are "better" in that I don't need any medical intervention other than medications and lifestyle changes. I do have a 30% blocked left main artery, no symptoms but it freaks me out a bit. However, had I not gone to see a doctor to be prescribed a medication, I would be none the wiser.

There are lifestyle choices I can make, more cardio exercise (and I already am quite committed to an exercise routine), healthier diet (that's probably the hardest for me) and decrease my stress level.

I am finding that I am "thinking" more about my life...things like this do that and I am grateful in some ways for this wakeup call.

I will met with my therapist again because the mind/body connection is quite strong and needs some delving into .....for my heart and my love for him are intertwined and I am not sure if that is logical or not but it is very real.

My prayers are for each one of you, in these strange and crazy times and I thank you for showing your care and concern to me. God bless you all.
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"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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#64: October 06, 2020, 06:42:32 AM
That sounds like pretty good news, xyz, and I'm so pleased to hear it  :)
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#65: October 06, 2020, 07:59:37 AM
     Glad to hear XYZ!
You will find that the cardio will help with your stress as well. Try and get your heart rate high even if just for a short time. It can make all the difference in the world !
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Re: Old Timers thread 6
#66: October 07, 2020, 01:20:57 AM
So glad to hear this, xy.
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Re: Old Timers thread 6
#67: October 07, 2020, 09:04:07 AM
Quote from: xyzcf on October 06, 2020, 06:25:54 AM
Thanks to all of you. My "virtual" family.

The test results are "better" in that I don't need any medical intervention other than medications and lifestyle changes.

More Golf - less Carbs.
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#68: October 07, 2020, 01:41:23 PM
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More Golf - less Carbs.

INDEED OP! I played my second day of golf in a row today  and will play again tomorrow  :D

Does less Carbs include beer????
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"Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see" Hebrews 11:1

"You enrich my life and are a source of joy and consolation to me. But if I lose you, I will not, I must not spend the rest of my life in unhappiness."

" The truth does not change according to our ability to stomach it". Flannery O'Connor

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#69: October 07, 2020, 06:06:47 PM
There is carbs in beer ? :-X

Glad to hear test results are better than expcted
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