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#70: October 08, 2020, 06:55:33 AM
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Old Timers thread 6
#71: October 08, 2020, 07:22:41 AM
Thank you OP! So many choices! Fortunately I already have Corona and Michelob light in the frig :)
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Re: Old Timers thread 6
#72: October 08, 2020, 08:26:03 AM
Quote from: OldPilot on October 08, 2020, 06:55:33 AM
Well I just learned something


https://www.delish.com/food/g26987069/low-carb-beer/

Oh wow! I wish they had that kind here... I will have do some researching :P
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#73: October 13, 2020, 02:03:25 PM
No, beer is carb free, as are cupcakes, and all desserts when you’re one of us!!! 🤣🤣💜💜
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#74: October 13, 2020, 02:18:16 PM
I wasn’t done.. stupid technology..

LP and Air, lawd how I’ve missed y’all... I finally figured out where all  my people went.

Genius landed exactly where you predicted he would.. Ostrich still have his head buried??

I can’t believe, after the hell that man put you through, he has the balls to blame you.. Yup, I said it, I’m from Texas.. I can’t help it!!

I do have this secret wish that puffy sends me the apology email I think I deserve. However, after the latest meme to hit Facebook, puffy is up next in 2020. Yes, my ex husband is a flaming ball of massive marshmallow goo.. the stay puff marshmallow man!!

I know his mlc certainly humbled me and I’m so grateful for it. I’d become just like him in so many ways and I don’t like him... and I know I didn’t like me..

Now, I’m a better person, friend, wife,  mom, aunt because of what I went through..

I still think a fruit basket to puffy would just be a fabulous idea!! Thank you for divorcing me, I’m having an incredible life!! Thanks...

Too soon??

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Old Timers thread 6
#75: November 17, 2020, 05:15:45 AM
Has anyone heard from ,Never say Never?  or Medusa?
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#76: November 17, 2020, 05:47:30 AM
I talked to NSN last week.
She and her hubby are reconciled and working through issues, but it's what she wants - and as we know - that's what's most important.
Seems like some come back with more issues than others...
As long as they're willing to work on themselves...

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Re: Old Timers thread 6
#77: November 18, 2020, 01:02:04 AM
So good to hear about Never, I have been thinking about her lately.
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#78: November 22, 2020, 05:00:19 AM
Wow!  I am so happy for Never.  I love a happy ending.  I can only imagine that it is very difficult, but the opportunity to heal together is available, and that is an amazing thing......
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Old Timers thread 6
#79: November 22, 2020, 04:58:31 PM
Hello all.  Hope you are doing well.

I don't post anymore as nothing to report.  BD was 2012 and husband a vanisher.  Thought I would add a quick update as we got messages from him recently.  Mine was to do with something we own together and which he wants to sell.  No surprise there.  I deleted the message.  No interest in anything he has to say, nor am I willing to return any calls.

Even contacted the kids  :o.  Said new job and moved state, seemed happy.  Added he recently had a bad illness (HAD not has) and can they contact him.  Kids were upset to hear from him and deleted his messages.

This was the person who abandoned his family and withdrew all finances, contact and support, and who put his children through emotional turmoil, as well as never asking how they are or even sending a dime for food.  A particularly vile man.

These calls came when we were all experiencing another stressful time, so the sound of his voice was truly unwanted, as well as his requests.

To anyone new to the site and reading this, I was in your situation and consumed by his behaviour and abandonment.  We made it to the other side, and now have zero interest in him at all.   I'm sure OW is probably still hanging around and waiting for her payday.  Who knows, don't care.  All we care about is we want him to go away and never contact us again.

There was a time when all I wanted was for him to come home.  That too, passes.

Stay well everyone, and focus on you.

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