Hi UL, it is good to hear from one of the longer timers, I've been here six years and it still feel as if I have some healing to do. It's the gift that keeps on giving and I think the more ruthless the MLCer is, the longer it takes. The constant lawyers letters and court appearances kept me engaged for a lot longer than I wanted and now that all the legals are sorted, I finally feel I can do things for me and not have to worry about xH ruining the flow of my life.
I hope your health improves, maybe now you don't have your H constantly at you, things will get better.
My life is sort of boring too. It was boring when I was with xH and I loved it, routine of taking the kids to school, going to work etc., just what I loved. Mu life is now limbo and I wish for boring, it was the best!
The difference is life is either boring and a little sad or boring and content and I wish for the contentment again which xH took away from me.