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My Story Out of Chaos into Calm
#150: July 02, 2023, 10:07:29 PM
You are so right courage. I also have been doing for me. I am pretty content. I still feel robbed of having a life partner, but I try to look at it as I had a 30 year marriage. That’s more than most. It really ends up being a put looking at the positives more than the negatives. Time really is our best friend
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There is almost something harder about someone being alive and having to lose what you believed to be true of them than someone actually dying.

Indefatigability - determined to do or achieve something; firmness of purpose
perspicacity- a clarity of vision or intellect which provides a deep understanding and insight

Married July 1991
Jan 2018 BD1 moved out I filed for Div/ H stopped it
Oct 2018 moved back
Oct 2020 BD2
Feb 2021 Div-29 1/2 years
July 2021 Married OW
Feb 2022  XH fired
May 2023 went NC after telling XH we could not be friends
Aug 2023 XH moves w/o OWife
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Out of Chaos into Calm
#151: July 03, 2023, 03:03:45 AM
Hi Courage.....



It's that time!  New Thread please...
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Me - 60, xW - 54
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 16, D - 12
1 Dog
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
Moved on in life
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A "friend" will not "stand by you" no matter what you do. That is NOT a friend. That is an enabler. That is an accomplice.
A REAL friend will sit you down and tell you to your face to stop being a firetrucking idiot before you ruin your life and the lives of those around you.
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#152: July 03, 2023, 05:07:15 AM
What a beautiful update CH  :D

Your trip sounds magical.... I'm so happy you experienced it.

Looking forward to the next thread  8) ...... quick...... the cops are on to you!!! HA!!!

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W - 43
M - 46
Together 28 years, M 25
No kids
BD - 27th April 2019
Start of Shadow - Feb 2012
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