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   I hope you rolled your eyes and got on with your day. An emoji is much easier than showing up and being a decent adult, after all. Grrr on your behalf.

But I hope you are having a lovely day with the small humans that came from that initial day, that’s worth celebrating x

I am I have brought them to a zoo somewhere completely new where we have never been as a family.. and your correct I was just like wtf.. and not replied I was gonna say thanks but I just don’t see how I could reply - because it’s either a thinking of you today because this is our wedding anniversary that I firetrucked up, or thinking of you today because I know it will be hard for you whilst I’m on my high horse with the ow.. I’ve been ok today - just had two moments where it hit me like a train.. last one as his wife and all that
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Well done you!
I tend to think of LBS healing as being a bit like building an old fashioned dry stone wall. Slowly, those individual good ‘stones’ - like your zoo day today - build something good and sturdy and even happy.
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T: 18  M: 12 (at BD) No kids.
H diagnosed with severe depression Oct 15. BD May 16. OW since April 16, maybe earlier. Silent vanisher mostly.
Divorced April 18. XH married ow 6 weeks later.


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