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Meet-Up Meet up in the UK anyone?
OP: January 06, 2020, 02:57:47 PM
Hi everyone, after the wonderful experience those of us had in Tuscany this past September, we left off saying we must do another one and possibly in the UK since it's a central location. I'm thinking that it's easier for people coming from abroad, and also there are many LBSes living in the Uk so makes it more affordable.

I don't know where or what but an idea to start with would be renting a house on the South West coast. That could be extended to further 2 days in London, or whatever anyone wants to suggest. Timing could be closer to summer since the weather is better.

I'm leaving it open to any suggestions so please feel free to make them.

Our Tuscany trip was much more than a sight seeing experience, we all came back stronger. It was a form of therapy, plus the opportunity to spend time with truly lovely people.

Ok, let's get this new trip going!
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#1: January 06, 2020, 03:04:13 PM
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#2: January 06, 2020, 03:53:08 PM
Count me in!  Glad to see Enyo is in too  :)

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#3: January 06, 2020, 05:14:26 PM
Interested!
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#4: January 06, 2020, 05:23:02 PM
Potentially interested - depending on date and timing.
S18 graduating, off to college, etc.

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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#5: January 06, 2020, 08:12:29 PM
Ah that would be way to expensive for me, but sounds like fun.
Hope you guys make it happen.

Maybe some time in the future a meet up in the U.S. would work.
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#6: January 07, 2020, 07:47:46 AM
Oh yes please, timing dependent.  What a nice idea. When were you thinking?
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#7: January 07, 2020, 08:13:46 AM
I don’t have a specific time in mind. Does anyone want to suggest one?
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#8: January 07, 2020, 11:06:31 AM
I would love that. I didn’t make it to Tuscany xx
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Re: Meet up in the UK anyone?
#9: January 07, 2020, 11:16:33 AM
110% in down for it. Provided I’m child free etc which with enough notice I can try and swap for a weekend etc etc.
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