UL,
Of COURSE he's being snarky... You are holding him accountable for something he said that he would do..... Accountability = Responsibility and Mid-Lifer's HATE to be held accountable or responsible.... To the Mid-Lifer, that is, of course, pressure.... For you, it is important to get the peace of mind that the debt is, in fact, paid. I guess that MLCH feels that, since you paid it, he is off the hook.....
As long as you keep asking, he will likely keep delaying... And if you do NOT keep asking, he won't do it anyway.... His "I work from x to y" excuse is just that... Watching films is not a necessary or required task. Checking that your taxes have been paid and that the account is now zero IS a required task....
Oh, and no, you don't need to let Mr. 14 year old teenie boy talk to you like that.....
Me - 60, xW - 54
Together 19 years - Married 17 at separation & 21 at D-Day
S - 16, D - 12
1 Dog
BD#1 - August 2015
Atomic BD - 13 Dec 2015
House sold & separated - Mar 2016
Divorce final 30 August 2019
Moved on in life
Survival Instructions for NewbiesSite Map A "friend" will not "stand by you" no matter what you do. That is NOT a friend. That is an enabler. That is an accomplice.
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REAL friend will sit you down and tell you to your face to stop being a firetrucking idiot before you ruin your life and the lives of those around you.