[UnconditionalLove]

Thank you Seahorse!  It does explain the attitude. I don’t have to figure out why the change. LOL!  He hasn’t responded back that I got the answer from the IRS myself.  He won’t and I’m ok with that.  I just didn’t know the change and now I do.  I’ll just move forward.  He’s not done baking yet.  I do wish him the best.  He will probably live the rest of his life with regret, shame and sadness but he’ll always find a way to place the blame on me or who ever when needed. 
Have a great weekend Seahorse

[Thunder]

Hi UL, I'm doing good, thank you for asking.   
I see nothing wrong with what you sent him.  I suppose professing love for him put him in a tizzy, or it stirred his guilt up.  Oh well....

I've never heard of radiation thru an IV.  But then I know someone who is getting Chemo by pills.
Well I hope these treatments shrink the tumors down to nothing!  Please keep us updated.

Sending prayers your way, hon.

Hugs

[UnconditionalLove]

Welllllll drum roll everyone!  The eagle has landed and all that stuff.  After 5 year and a lot of prayer even when nobody thought that he would.... My ex on Friday paid me some alimony.  I was shocked!  I can’t believe it!  It’s a Christmas Miracle.  No ever gets money from an ex when they stop paying.  I just kept the faith that my ex would at some point do the right thing.  He had to be told to do it or lead to do it.  He didn’t do it on his own but he was at a point where he knew he needed to start doing something.  So, here is to a bright future. Hoping 2021 is my year.

[xyzcf]

That is great news UL....such a great miracle!

[UrsaMajor]

Hi UL,

I am REALLY glad that you finally got something.... Let's hope that he continues to honor his obligations now...

Isn't it strange though when we are so happy and celebrate a Mid-Lifer actually DOING what they are obligated/supposed to do? What a messed-up world....

UM

[UnconditionalLove]

Yes XYZCf it is a miracle!

URSAMajor, I know right?  It is weird!

[Thunder]

Well will wonders never cease, huh UL?

Hope he stays that course now. 

Hugs!

[UnconditionalLove]

Thunder, I can’t believe he did it.  He didn’t do it on his own.  I had to say we can do it this way or court and this time it soaked in.  Someone asked me the other day did I thank him and I said no I didn’t.  I didn’t respond.  Why should I thank him for something he should have been doing all along.  It’s a responsibility.  Plus, it’s not like it came out of no where.  He had to be lead to do it but lead or not I don’t care.  I’m just glad he started back up with something.  That first payment is the hardest to get going.  It took 5 years it will come a little more easier has he keeps paying so lets hope I see a second payment.  Thanks

[Thunder]

Yes lets hope so!

So how is everything else going?

[UnconditionalLove]

Thunder, all is well.  I am going through some IV radiation and doing well with that.  Working, doing my art and done with all the crap I was left to so I have nothing left I have to fix.  LOL!  I still get sad, I wish for my best friend back but I also see a lot I miss when we were married.  I see how much I missed that was right in front of me.  My MLCer was missing for a while.  He just didn’t know who he was and what he really wanted other than medical school. Lol. He didn’t know how to stand on his own.  He didn’t lead, he followed and I did it all thinking we were both on the same page.  He didn’t communicate, he’s quiet ways now says a lot to me.  I took those as us being on the same page.  I wasn’t looking hard enough to see he was missing.

Now, after the affair which I’m assuming is over he is for the first time on his own making his own decisions and choices.  No one helping him, telling him what to do or him becoming someone else through his quiet ways.  This is the place now that he become his own person.

So, I guess I’m good.  I’m lonely wishing I had that friendship.  I miss that.  I don’t know if the rest of my life is going to be this lonely journey but I’m doing well.