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#130: November 23, 2022, 06:04:06 AM
Hello,

Very good update.

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I felt relief that my ex actually took the steps to finish her filing but a tinge of sadness appeared at the thought of having a failed marriage under my belt.

I know the feeling. It never goes away completely, but it does become a distant memory. I am so glad that you have someone and that will also help you move forward. I started dating my current wife eight years ago and we have been married for four. It has been a blast and I look forward to spending many more years to come with her.

I hope you find the same joy that I have found. There are many things that my MLC experience taught me and carefully reading many posts and threads, how to be patient and persevere, be kind but firm, and not be a right fighter. You can be right and dead right in the end.

Keep posting and be strong. Try each day to find a way to make yourself better. You may not succeed every day, but at least you tried.

Have a Happy Thanksgiving,

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#131: November 25, 2022, 11:09:47 PM
Hey, LL, good to hear from you! I do hope that you will keep posting and/or keep in touch from time to time. You were a big part of the reason I started posting here back when all of this was new, and I am grateful that you shared your story. I’m so happy to hear that you are moving forward with your life… sorry to hear that nearly-xW is still churning, but I guess that is often the way it goes. Wishing you all the best in this next chapter.
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#132: November 26, 2022, 12:33:53 AM
Hi LBS good to hear an update from you.  Like you I also felt relieved that my divorce was finalized but also sad that my marriage didn’t make it. Also good to hear you found someone else. I wish you all the best in your moving forward journey.
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Me 43 at BD
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Married 11 yrs at BD, no kids,
BD May 2019 (I moved out Nov 2019)
EA or PA with ex gf (not sure), H spent 3 nights with the hoe during our vacation in July 2019, it was a friendly encounter according to H
H wanted D April 2020 seeing suspected OW2 (divorced with two kids) and 2 years older than him, H didn’t file the D
Clinging boomerang
6/21 H moved in with me; kicked him out 01/22
H turned into a vanisher, wants a Divorce, OW 3 (16 years younger and extreme sporty)
14.11.22 Divorce final, I'm done
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#133: December 09, 2022, 07:53:12 PM
Thanks for the update LL. 

Miss reading your posts and I hope you come back from time to time to share how you've been!
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#134: June 22, 2023, 06:32:18 PM
So glad to have caught up
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#135: June 22, 2023, 06:32:27 PM
Glad your well
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3 children together D6 D9 D11 (D1 D4 and D6 at the time of BD)
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Ow met children - December 2019
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