[Happylight]

He continues to be at home, but nothing has been "said."  The other night he went to a bike event and I was super suprised when he came back that evening.  I didn't comment at all--I really don't know if he is looking for a reaction or not. 

I get the sense that sometimes our kids and all their events and all the noise (especially our youngest) is overwhelming. **Sarcasm warning** I get it, its overwhelming for me too, and some of us haven't had a break from it in the last 18 months--while others, well, have gotten to be part time parents.  There are so many things that I think in my head, but don't actually say out loud. 

Journaling events:  He cleaned up the kitchen for me and told me to rest when I got home from work.  He also was changing out exhaust fans in the bathroom.  He hadn't really done any tasks around the house in the last year +.  Even when he is going to leave, he comes over and hangs out at the house. 

Our son's 21st birthday is Friday, and he plans to be here to celebrate, but he did tell me he "has someplace he as to be" this weekend.  I am thinking MC business, but I don't know for sure, and I didn't ask.  I do wonder if he even remembers that it is mother's day. He has never been good about remembering that ahead of time (even in the good days), and sometimes hasn't even really done anything for it, so I guess this year probably won't be any different.