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My Story It's A Wonderful Life
OP: November 23, 2022, 10:02:24 AM
I don't have the time to go into it at the moment, but when I have more time, I will further explain the title of this thread, beyond the obvious.  It truly is a wonderful life, but there's also a new holiday tradition that Popeye and I started a couple years ago that goes along with it.

Plus, it's Thanksgiving eve and I'll be up to my elbows in pies, turkey, dinner rolls and preparing a couple of small sides lol  I look so forward to spending the day with my family and Popeye, so I truly don't mind a bit of the work that goes into making it a memorable affair.  I hope you all have a wonderful day surrounded by your loved ones ❤️

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#1: November 23, 2022, 01:49:29 PM
Hello,

I think it is a great thread title. It is one of my favorite movies and Jimmy Stewart was one of my favorite actors. In the movie, George Bailey has lots and lots of setbacks, but he manages just to keep his head above water. He was a hard worker and he persevered.

I know you put in the work. You stick to your workout regimen and put the same passion into your baking as well.

My son once told me, "Before you, my mom dated a lot of crap men. It was so sad to see her go out hopeful and be hurt again and again. That's why we are so happy that you are part of her life. You have made her a confident person again."  My wife persevered and never gave up.

I went through my ups and downs as well. That's why I am so happy with my wife. We know how much a broken heart hurts and we work to keep each other safe. That doesn't mean we don't argue, but we fight with respect and it is more to communicate our feelings-not put the other person down.

I know you have had your own fair share of crap. Your passion and positivity during this time saw you through. That's why I read and celebrate your thread. Not everyone is going to reconcile and we need to be prepared to accept any outcome.

Enjoy your day with Popeye and family. I know he feels just as blessed as you are,

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#2: November 24, 2022, 12:31:11 AM
Attaching - and looking forward to hearing about your new tradition...

I linked your threads for you too while I was at it....
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#3: November 30, 2022, 09:59:26 AM
So, just very briefly and true to my trajectory of forward movement, the theme and title of this thread speak of the ups and downs of everyday, normal life.  Life is not good, nor bad, but rather what you make it and of how you perceive the events that take place.

Ever since Popeye and I have been together, we've made it our tradition to settle in front of the tv on Christmas Eve and devour a homemade pizza, while watching, you guessed it, It's A Wonderful Life.  I had never seen this movie in It's entirety until we got together, so that makes it all the more meaningful because he's only added to my life and brought it to a fullness it's really never had.

If you've seen the movie, you know Jimmy Stewart's character, George has had quite a life.  Like all of us, he's seen and done a lot and gets a glimpse of what life would have been like if he'd never existed.  My husband also quotes the line "one life touches many" and that's the truth.  Anyway, I've always expressed gratitude that Universe has granted me the lessons it has and also that I've been wise enough to learn them as gracefully and quickly as possible.
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#4: December 01, 2022, 05:59:09 AM
Great title beyondblessed!  I love hearing how well you're doing.  I actually just saw that movie for the first time last year. Maybe this year I'll watch it again and eat some pizza thinking of you guys :)  Thank you for sharing -- I hope you and Popeye have a wonderful holiday/new year!!!!
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#5: December 01, 2022, 08:18:13 AM
It's an amazing film - and I haven't seen it for years. I'm going to watch it with S this Christmas, thanks for reminding me of it!
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#6: December 02, 2022, 09:45:51 PM
Hi BB  :D

I've never seen that movie..... or Miracle on 34th St.

One of my favorite channels had the last theatrical Popeye cartoon made and showed it......  :P
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QL-pE6x5Lg&t=735s
It's at 6:09 and Olive Oyl is in it too.  8) (The whole video is fascinating, he talks all about Popeye and old old film). History rocks!! 
HA!!

Pizza and a movie sounds delightful.... what a wonderful life  :)

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#7: December 06, 2022, 06:18:51 PM
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#8: December 07, 2022, 03:24:40 PM
I went with D11 and her whole year group from school to an operatic version of the film today, performed by the ENO in London.

I was in charge of 6 kids getting to and from school on the tube, of a group of 90 kids.

The opera was wonderful, the kids were well behaved and kind of appreciative of the event. All in all an amazing day with a group of lovely kids!
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Re: It's A Wonderful Life
#9: December 08, 2022, 07:59:17 AM
Great title beyondblessed!  I love hearing how well you're doing.  I actually just saw that movie for the first time last year. Maybe this year I'll watch it again and eat some pizza thinking of you guys :)  Thank you for sharing -- I hope you and Popeye have a wonderful holiday/new year!!!!
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Thank you, TS!  I'm glad to share this tradition with everyone because  I mean, pizza and a classic holiday move....that's a win-win.  I hope you and your family have a wonderful holiday season!
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