Things I’ve learned:
Action is who you are, words are how you want to be perceived.
You are whatever you continually do.
You cannot expect something they haven’t already shown they are capable of from another person.
The only thing anyone is obligated to do is what the law will enforce, other than that....it’s all a choice....and there are no obligation police.
A persons inability to see your worth is a statement about their ability to see, not a statement about your worth.
How you treat yourself/ talk to yourself and how you allow others to treat/ talk to you will determine your perception of yourself.
Your partner and the people around you are going to trigger your wounds, but they are your wounds, they are being revealed to you so you can heal them.
Your feelings are determined by the story(meaning) you tell yourself about a person/ situation/ or thing, so make sure the story you are telling yourself is an empowering one.
You have to live with your own emotions, so make sure that your choices are going to lead you towards the emotions you prefer to feel.
Every person on earth is on a journey of self discovery, they learn at their own pace, it is never your job or responsibility to help them or teach them unless they ask.
You teach people through your actions how to treat you, 70% of communication is nonverbal.
You were not created requiring another person to make you whole, you have everything you need inside you.
Triggers are showing you your belief system, get to the bottom of the shame messages your triggers are indicating and start actively working on undoing those messages.
If a person isn’t getting to know you by asking you deep vulnerable questions, then their perception of you doesn’t matter because it’s just a story they made up in their own head of who you are.
Emotions are just bodily sensations that that we labeled that give you information from your subconscious mind.
At any minute our brain is processing 11,000 bits of information, the human capacity for focus is 60 bits, so listen to your intuition.
You are the author of your own life and story, don’t hand the reins over to another person.
Action proceeds feelings, don’t wait until you feel a certain way to take action, decide how you want to feel and then take the actions that will get you there.
Surround yourself with people who assume the best about your intentions. People who treat you like you are worthy lovable and awesome.
You cannot change other people, or other people’s emotions.
That’s all I can think of right now, there are lots more and feel free to add your own if you want.
Love
❤️ Courage❤️