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#90: September 24, 2021, 09:42:22 PM
A hearty congratulations to both of you, BB! 

I hope you're making the wedding cake!!
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#91: September 26, 2021, 06:55:52 PM
A hearty congratulations to both of you, BB! 

I hope you're making the wedding cake!!

SB, I don't know about the cake for the actual day of our wedding,  since it is a destination wedding/honeymoon and I'm definitely not packing all of my baking supplies and dragging them along😆  And, no way am I traveling over 12 hrs with a wedding cake lol  Our wedding is at sunset and after,  we plan to go out with our families for a nice oceanfront dinner.  I can't think of a better way to start our new life together.

Once we return home...and here's to hoping we've found our new home by then 🤞🤞, we plan on having a nice house warming/reception for friends and family.  For that, I can assure many different gourmet cupcakes and desserts 🥰


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#92: October 04, 2021, 03:16:06 PM
Dumpster Day was one of the happiest days of my life!! Clearing out the clutter both physical and mental and moving on lighter and happier. Sounds like you are well on your way to a lighter, happier life!! So happy for you!!

DF....yes, Dumpster Day has now been deemed a huge success.  Lots of trash from the past now in a huge landfill of garbage where it belongs now and forever.  Never to be spoken of again.

The wedding plans are all made, complete with a full week's rental of a house right on the Folly River, surrounded by marshes and sporting a gorgeous view of the beach just a couple blocks away.

And, now that my current home has been purged , it is now time to start house hunting in my future town.  Popeye and I are wasting no time and are already working with a real estate agent.  The bank appointment went well, and we have a couple different purchasing options available since we are both good to go and comfortably well off from a financial standpoint.  I am very excited to see what comes available,  now that the market is starting to come back to normal, and now that the wedding is set and my house is almost ready to list, I think things will move rather quickly and the next 7 months will be a blur.

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#93: October 04, 2021, 05:12:59 PM
I am getting whiplash reading your posts BB.  Lol!
When life decides to change it sure does it in rapid speed. A bunch of things are starting move in my life and it can be super scary.  You do it with such grace.
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#94: October 04, 2021, 06:19:10 PM
I am getting whiplash reading your posts BB.  Lol!
When life decides to change it sure does it in rapid speed. A bunch of things are starting move in my life and it can be super scary.  You do it with such grace.

Although I deeply appreciate the compliment, DF, I have exactly as much grace as a bull in a china shop 😆   It's my persevere and faith in God and myself, that get me through.
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#95: October 11, 2021, 03:09:37 PM
I mean, I'm away from HS for a few months and you are now the 2nd out of 2 posters I've read to get engaged? OMG. Well I am beyond thrilled for you. You've done the hard work and it has  come back to you. So awesome.  You are really such an inspiration to so many here. I can't wait to see what comes next for you.

Congrats!
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#96: October 12, 2021, 05:00:03 PM
Welcome back, KIT!  I took a peek at your latest update, and you sound phenomenal.   You have mastered the lessons of detachment and ignoring the moving (lying) lips and instead are only focused on what's being done and not the hot air circulating the room.  So happy for you to be in a place of peace and personal power.

Indeed, I am happily engaged and so ready to start my life with my beloved.  He's truly a blessing from above and just an all-around decent, genuine guy with a heart of pure gold.  It took walking thru hell to find him, but it is a trip I would do again if it meant he'd be waiting on the other side.
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