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« Latest by MadLuv on Today at 04:25:49 AM »Alimony was paid. I guess the delay was to make me nervous. It worked. Who knows what happens next. I journaled this to show even 3 years after a divorce things can get worse. I have 10 more years of alimony and it will be a long 10 years of this and something tells me that there is more to come.
Something else NEW!! My D33 told me that her dad ,who she referred to him by his name, showed up at his Mom’s house last year after he was told by his brother and cousin that she was ill and he better go see her and make it right. So, he showed up one night. He spent the night and got up the next morning and left. She said, grandma saod thr first thing she noticed was how old he looked. He told her he walked a lot and was completely off his diabetes 2 meds.
She told D33 he was my best kid growing up. He did what he was told with not hesitation. His brother would behave like, how many beating do I have to take before you will make me do this. She now said, he checks on me constantly and offers to have me come live with him and you dad I can’t even speak
To. I asked if she felt good about the visit. She said, I think she is at
Peace . That, it is was it is, but she does not expect to see him again. She did not speak glowingly of the visit.
Very quick in and out. D33 said, if that was my kid and he abandoned his children I would be so distraught. I told D33 we have all lost. Ge abandoned all of us. It just shows thT he is not well and still not doing anything to look at why.
D33 also is so confused that he bought this big expensive house and she still lives in the old house in another state. She checked as both OWife her and her D work technically under my daughter , but also a different state. They are both still employed in the old state.
She said, it’s very telling that they aren’t living together. That they didn’t move with him. I said yes it is.
Something else NEW!! My D33 told me that her dad ,who she referred to him by his name, showed up at his Mom’s house last year after he was told by his brother and cousin that she was ill and he better go see her and make it right. So, he showed up one night. He spent the night and got up the next morning and left. She said, grandma saod thr first thing she noticed was how old he looked. He told her he walked a lot and was completely off his diabetes 2 meds.
She told D33 he was my best kid growing up. He did what he was told with not hesitation. His brother would behave like, how many beating do I have to take before you will make me do this. She now said, he checks on me constantly and offers to have me come live with him and you dad I can’t even speak
To. I asked if she felt good about the visit. She said, I think she is at
Peace . That, it is was it is, but she does not expect to see him again. She did not speak glowingly of the visit.
Very quick in and out. D33 said, if that was my kid and he abandoned his children I would be so distraught. I told D33 we have all lost. Ge abandoned all of us. It just shows thT he is not well and still not doing anything to look at why.
D33 also is so confused that he bought this big expensive house and she still lives in the old house in another state. She checked as both OWife her and her D work technically under my daughter , but also a different state. They are both still employed in the old state.
She said, it’s very telling that they aren’t living together. That they didn’t move with him. I said yes it is.