| Cake-Eating (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/standing-actions_contact-and-communication_cake-eating.html) | Trying to have the best of two worlds--you and the alienator. |
| Dark, Dim (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/standing-actions_contact-and-communication_contact-levels_dim-and-dark.html) | Varying levels of contact limitation |
| GAL | Get A Life, Who Are You? (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus_who-are-you.html) Find and become your Self. |
| Hope (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus_assurances_hope.html) | Something that runs in the background, present, but suspended for attentiveness to the reality of Now. |
| Monster (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/mlc_overview_monster.html) | The nasty personality displayed by many MLCers, consists of venom spewing blame and hatred. |
| NC (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/standing-actions_contact-and-communication_contact-levels_no-contact.html) | No Contact, The strictest level of contact limitation |
| Paving the Way (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus.html) | Paving a safe path--using the Unconditionals--to you for your spouse. |
| PMA (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus_choose-joy_positive-mental-attitude.html) | Positive Mental Attitude |
| Mirror-Work (http://loveanyway.theherosspouse.com/?p=1049) | What you need to do for yourself. |
| The Unconditionals (http://www.midlifecrisismarriageadvocate.com/self-focus_unconditionals_grace.html) | Grace, Agape and Forgiveness |