Welcome to my latest thread. What new fun awaits?My first bomb drop was 11/09. I stood and we reconciled in 9/10. Second bomb drop 4/16. Divorced 9/16
Cast:—FAMILY—
S27 &
S25 - live together in former family home 5 miles away S27 bought from me.
S20 &
S18 - live with XW & OM a mile away from their brothers. S18 will go away to college Fall '20
—GIRLFRIEND—
KA - Six years younger, we began dating 2/18 and see each other Tuesdays and weekends alternating houses depending if she has her
D7. Her father age 80+ lives with them. Her best friend is
LD.
—SINGLE FRIENDS KNOWN since 2016—
MM - my woman best friend who is married, but her dying H is confined to bed for the last 20+ years. Some have said she loves me?
JS - my best guy friend who is overly serious which is why women don’t like him!
DC - an interested woman in a four year relationship. There is a secret attraction between us. We were last intimate a year ago.
—FORMER GIRLFRIENDS in reverse order—
AF - I gave her up to try with CH again. That didn't happen. No contact. 11/17-12/17
CH - loved her but she dumped me. Many mutual friends. No contact. 9/16-11/17. Unblocked me 5/20 on Facebook.
AG - 11 yrs younger I dated her same time as CH. A friend now, I don’t see. 8/16-12/16
GW - rebound while separated. No contact. 6/16-7/16
---OTHERS---
XW - we were married 25 years, she is now married to OM since 12/18
OM - former husband of BF for 25 years, he no longer sees his kids. I hate him and wish him harm. We have not exchanged any words since before I discovered their affair.
BF - former best friend of XW for 22 years, lives with her kids a state away and has no contact with her ex, the OM. She has a boyfriend.
I had a very active social life throwing a party at my home monthly attended by no less than 20 people. This ended due to the pandemic as well as activities with a hiking group and a singles group I belong to. I basically see my gf KA, her family and coworkers as I continue to work. XW and I rarely communicate but lately about S18s college tuition.
Previous thread:
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10460.0My very first thread:
https://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=4735.msg300673#msg300673