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#150: May 16, 2018, 07:18:40 AM
I am so sorry Rising, just sad how they let OW run their lives and appalling how he is indifferent to his own child hurting.
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#151: May 16, 2018, 07:54:23 AM
I don’t know Schratz66.  She doesnt wAnt him anywhere near me so no kids as means he had to see me. How can another person be more important than your kids!
What hurts my kids hurts me.
Well I got arsy this morn and have emailed that I have had enough and he will speak to me about kids even if I have to turn up at his work. He said he is happy to take kids out the other week but they have not contacted him! Not their hib as he is the adult! So my next email is right I will take them Park, I expect you to attend and I will leave!
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Ow 16 yrs younger, no children never been married. co worker. EA turned to PA and lives with ow
Divorce bomb drop by him 31/8/17 by solicitor letter after being caught by ow at lunch with me 3 wk earlier. Finances Not yet finalised.
Crazy divorce started by him.
Clinging boomerang for 3 yrs now Vanisher but  twice a yr pops his head up. ow has balls in a vice!
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Re: Anyone else have a vanisher? 15
#152: May 16, 2018, 08:00:37 AM
Rising, it's very typical for some of these MLCer's to put the alienator ahead of everyone else, sadly even their children.
They are not in their right mind.  Their addiction is strong.

Would someone like to start a new thread for Vanishers?   :)

New thread: http://mlcforum.theherosspouse.com/index.php?topic=10151.0
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« Last Edit: May 17, 2018, 07:25:57 AM by Thunder »
A quote from a recovered MLCer: 
"From my experience if my H had let me go a long time ago, and stop pressuring me, begging, and pleading and just let go I possibly would have experienced my awakening sooner than I did."
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