Learning, the real Mr J was wonderful. It is like losing someone to addiction, except with addiction everyone knows something is wrong with the person, with MLC, often, the MLCer looks normal to everyone but the LBS. I don't know if the real Mr J is still inside the MLC version. Who knows, maybe.
Yes, I know what I want in a relationship. We're self suficient and problems solvers indeed. I confess at times I get a little tired of it, but it is fine. And I have learned to ask my brother and cousin who had MLC to do some things for me.
If I called real Mr J because of something like what happened to your car he would come and help. Or call someone to help in case he couldn't come.
Your husband become so angry because you woke him up? Who gets angry when a spouse calls in the middle of the night because there is a problem?
Sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. (Marilyn Monroe)