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My Story Rebuilding Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#20: May 21, 2016, 10:43:47 PM
I'm so sorry, RCR. So much transitioning at once. Be kind to yourself as the emotions come. :::hugs:::
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#21: May 22, 2016, 01:03:39 AM
I'm very, very sorry for your loss -- and I get that you knew it would be today.  My prayers are with you, and with the baby. 
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#22: May 22, 2016, 03:09:40 PM
Please take care of yourself RCR, the forum will be fine and you need to take care of yourself and your kids.
Don't deny your feelings   of grief.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#23: May 22, 2016, 03:13:03 PM
I'm so sorry for your loss.

Hope the baby is well.

Please take care of yourself RCR, the forum will be fine and you need to take care of yourself and your kids.
Don't deny your feelings   of grief.

Second OP.

My thoughts are with you and your family.
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#24: May 22, 2016, 03:15:57 PM
So so sorry for your loss. My thoughts are with you and your family.

Glad you did get the baby and I do hope she will do well.
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#25: May 22, 2016, 03:29:27 PM
So sorry for the loss of your dear dad RCR.
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#26: May 22, 2016, 03:30:36 PM
RCR,

I'm sorry to hear about your dad passing.  I remember how I felt losing mine.  He was a wonderful father and is missed every single day.

Take good care of that little one.  You and your family are in my prayers.
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#27: May 22, 2016, 04:00:34 PM
I'm so sorry , take care. XxX
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#28: July 27, 2016, 02:00:17 PM
A quick update on Baby--who is doing well.


DNA/Paternity results are in and the father is the current boyfriend--the ex-boyfriend would have gotten Baby outright. The Social Worker was here Monday and said that the Aunt of Dad has filled outher background check paperwork and has admitted to something that should disqualify her. If it is a gray area and she is not disqualified, our Social Worker said she still has other concerns which she will pass on to the home inspectors and licensing team. What this means is that Baby is not likely going to be going to Dad's Aunt and Uncle because even if they pass a background check, they are unlikely to pass a home inspection. That means she will be with us...and her parents are visiting and going through services; they could get her back and if not, we are here for our littlest Adorable.
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Re: Adopting a New Life IV
#29: July 27, 2016, 03:10:50 PM
RCR,

I will be praying for you, you're family and little Adorable!   :)

Thanks for the update.

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