would you say now the greater success rates of returns are with the clinging boomerangs and or boomerangs?YES!
We know it's hard to gauge a vanisher as they are gone until they reappear, IF they ever do. I wondered now with as long as it's been for many, could this be the reason?First are you asking if some MLCers are taking longer because they are Vanishers or maybe it's about the LBS so are some LBSs Standing longer because their MLCers
Is that the gap that many may get stuck in while waiting or standing if you will? I agree there are various types of standers too. Could it simply be if the style of the LBS and the style of the MLCer are so very different as their now present selves that they couldn't be a match no matter how long it's been?Got lost a bit here I think...
It seems with the two types of clingers that they have the best chance of coming out of it because their brains are wired a bit differently than the high energy replayer?Here, you are confusing some terms. Clinging Boomerangs and Boomerangs are Contact Types--both Close Contact Types. A Replayer is an Energy type--the High Energy Type and the Low Energy counterpart is a Wallower. We determine the Energy type based on their behaviour during the stage called Escape & Avoid--which Jim Conway called Replay. Contact Type is based on the amount of contact--regardless of who initiates and the emotional-level of contact. So Boomerangs and Clinging Boomerangs can contact the same amount, but a Clinging Boomerang may need more reassurance, cycle more, profess love for you, seem more uncertain (goes with cycling), tell you they'll be back or you can just marry each other again, move home or try to multiple times, talk about regretting their actions. This is not to say a Clinging Boomerang will do all of those things, but they have a tendency toward more neediness for their LBS. Clinging Boomerangs are often Replayers.
Seeing Chucks moral dilemma that he was torn as he felt obligated to both of you for various reasons. He felt something compassionate and guilt ridden at the same time. With the others they just leap and flee in a greater selfish and several in a destructive mode, if you will.What made Chuck a Clinging Boomerang? Was it that sense of moral obligation? His guilt and compassion? Each individual runs from guilt in their own way, so some run from it and it may bring them back-and-forth to their MLCer...perhaps as a means of alleviating by reaching out or comfort (security blanket) A Vanisher might run without seeming to look back and without reaching out as an avoidance of their guilt.
Thanks again for all you have done through the years, especially in your busy life too. It was nice to put a name and a face together on the video you did as well. I believe that was for O? Was there a part 2?Confused again---for O? Part 2?