Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses

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Title: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: Standing in Patience on August 12, 2011, 07:59:36 AM

Prevailing wisdom say this is the definition of the typical age difference.

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: justasking on August 12, 2011, 08:22:34 AM

Sorry Standing I am confused. Are you asking about the different in age between the MLCer and spouse or the MLCer and OW/OM?

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: Standing in Patience on August 12, 2011, 08:23:57 AM

I'm asking about the age difference between the WAS and the affair partner.

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: justasking on August 12, 2011, 08:32:17 AM

Thanks for clarifying that I will put my vote in now.

xx

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: Standing in Patience on August 12, 2011, 09:01:57 AM

Changed one possibly answer to Don't know for Sure because that is a true possibility. Also the chances that a responder would answer 11 years is highly unlikely. That would mean that they have the same birthday, I suppose.

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: NewBeginnings on August 12, 2011, 10:04:23 AM

Oops, I voted wrong.  There is 20 years difference between my H and his affair partner.  Don't know if someone can change that for me.  ;D

Heartbroken

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: OldPilot on August 12, 2011, 10:11:05 AM

Quote from: heartbroken on August 12, 2011, 10:04:23 AM

Oops, I voted wrong.  There is 20 years difference between my H and his affair partner.  Don't know if someone can change that for me.  ;D

Heartbroken

No we can not change it, I tried.

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: NewBeginnings on August 12, 2011, 10:16:34 AM

ok, thanks for trying.

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: limitless on August 12, 2011, 05:02:29 PM

My H had affairs (PA or EA - don't know) with his ex-wife and ex high school girlfriend.

Both are his age - 7 years older than me.

Crazy huh?

L

Title: Re: Is/Was it a May-December affair?
Post by: Chrysalis on August 13, 2011, 04:06:32 AM

My ex's OW is an old girlfriend from art college and is two years older than him - I'm six years younger than him.  Makes you feel good being left for an older woman!