Midlife Crisis: Support for Left Behind Spouses

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Title: Love and Happiness at the expense of everything you previously loved?
Post by: nlovemyfamily on May 20, 2012, 10:19:05 AM: Help me understand why this MLC chosen freedom is called love and happiness when all that comes out of it is destruction, estrangement and indifference?
Title: Re: Love and Happiness at the expense of everything you previously loved?
Post by: justasking on May 21, 2012, 12:24:11 AM: called love and happiness

It's because it's the MLCers perception of why he/she is leaving the maariage. Reality is much less idealistic.

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Title: Re: Love and Happiness at the expense of everything you previously loved?
Post by: Anjae on May 21, 2012, 12:46:47 AM: It is not possible to be happy at the expense of someone else happiness. Love does not destroy, creates.

It is just their little twisted minds that are confusing everything. They think happiness is material things, flashy toys and new OW and that love is the high and rush of in-fatuation.

They are deluded. Just like any addicted or person with and unbalanced brain. They see a fantasy and think it is real.
Title: Re: Love and Happiness at the expense of everything you previously loved?
Post by: calamity on May 21, 2012, 07:46:15 AM: I can't believe they [mlc ers] all use the same language. Who writes this stuff? What they feel is not love and its not happiness.